I have been in college for 1 year while my boyfriend was still in high school. I came home for the summer to spend it with him but he moved in June just to get out of his house...I was mad at him for a while for this but I'm ok now. I miss him A LOT even though I see him on the weekends. We have been together for 2.5 years now so we are a pretty strong couple but all I do is sit here and wait for him to call me when he's not playing his video games or working...all my friends are gone so I really have no one here to hang out with. What should I do to make what's left of the summer a good summer without just being a lazy bum?How do you cope with being away from your boyfriend/husband?
go out and have fun, like u said you guys are a strong couple, have fun and still keep the relationship flowing!How do you cope with being away from your boyfriend/husband?
I hate it! My husaband goes out of town for work. Hes not gone that long but being in the house without him, makes it so lonley! I just keep at my job, clean the **** out of the house, and then visit my family or my friends. Try to keep myself busy! When he leaves, he usualy leaves a pillow at home so theres still something of this there. That kind of makes it nice when your trying to fall asleep!
When Edward left me I felt as if a hole was inside me. I would have to hold myself to keep myself from falling apart. I did crazy things just to hear his voice in my head ( I recommend not doing this because it may result in your boyfriend/husband thinking you killed yourself) My other good friend Jacob was there for me and kept my mind off Edward. He has such a positive attitude.
i know how you feel.
im with my boyfriend of almost a year, i live in california, he lives in ICELAND.
but were only 14 so its a little different haha.
try and make some new friends maybe. thats what im doing to keep myself busy.
or you can go outside for a walk, that always helps me.
and duude at least you get to see him! haha
good luck babe :)
you keep yourself busy..only seeing him over the weekend..thats bad? well how about my situation with my boyfriend being gone for 3 MONTHS for boot camp w/marines..yeah i have it worse..but anyway..just keep busy and find things to do i guess.
ok i dont care who this guy is, i love video games as much as the next guy but any guy who wants a game more than a human being is got some priority sorting needing to be done.. if he really liked u hed come to you...hes your booty call
Go out and make new friends, or go and visit him. Also, you can ask him to come and visit you!
ditch your dude - he sounds like a looser. there are sooooo many others out there, I promise you'll find better. Your young - probably beautiful... go out. go to the pool/lake/mall whatever - meet people - laugh - dance... being single is the best, really
Make new friends, voulteer, read , spend time with parents, grandparents, take a day trip, take a hobby class, :)
Have fum while ur young
hAVE A SUMMER LOVE IF HE DOESNT SHOW AND GIVE YOU THE ATTENION YOU NEED YOU GUYS MAY NEED A BREAK AT THE SAME TIME TALK TO HIM H=TELL HIM HOW YOU FELL ABOUT THE WHOLE DISTANCE RELASTIONSHIP
You can join him play video games.. :D
Its hard, I know I've been there, But if you trust and love them then, you got nothing to worry about.
Try to do other things to keep your mind off of him. At a time like this you need your friends.
Live your own life - pursue your interests, he is.
l am a man and l have sex w/ women. That's how l deal w/ being away from my husband.
Get a job.
Get a hobby or find another man.
Get a job!
Let me know when you get an answer, I'm in a similar situation =/
Get another boyfriend on the side........and keep it a secret.
get a hobby or go on vacation girll
its understandable that you miss him and everything but dont waste your time sitting by the phone waiting for him to call. go out and have fun for yourself, even if you dont have a lot of friends that you can hang out with. go to the movies by yourself. go take a walk. take a one day trip to another city nearby. and if he happens to call and get an answering machine hell only admire you more because even though you love him, your life does not revolve around him.
never ever ever let your life revolve around a man. you always have to be independent!!! they will respect you more for it.
Friday, August 20, 2010
How do you make your man/woman file for nullity from his/her current marriage, which is not you?
Im 25, he's 35.
I know this is stupid - i fell in love- but, it has been a year since i moved with my boyfriend, who is now 5yrs married to his wife and has a 3 yr-old son.
Its so obvious that he doesnt love his wife (its shows and he said so).
He's with me on working days, stays with his family on non-working days.
The first and last time we talked about it, all he said was he doesnt want to be the faulty and bad one.
And any annulment case would only lead him to not marrying again.
Any advice? explanation?
I cannot find help from any of my friends coz they all despise him and all they want to for me to move out of the apartment and find a new beginning.How do you make your man/woman file for nullity from his/her current marriage, which is not you?
okay, let's keep this simple.
YOU'RE THE OTHER WOMAN. You're not ever going to be the wife. NOT EVER. He doesn't love you or respect you. He just sleeps with you. That's it.
If you're really gullible enough to live with a married man, and expect him to be faithful TO YOU, that's one thing. But to expect him to give up half of his money and assets to get out of a marriage, when he gets to do you now for free? That's just being stupid. And even if this was a fairy tale and he did leave his wife for you. Guess what? He'd cheat on you, too! That's what cheaters do. They cheat. DUH!!!
Grow up. You don't deserve happiness when you're stealing a man from another family. Stop thinking what you're doing is okay, get out of this man's life and move on. Doing anything else is just being his whore. And a poorly paid one at that.
Good luck.How do you make your man/woman file for nullity from his/her current marriage, which is not you?
If he didn't want to be with his wife nor love her, they wouldn't be together. So don't fall for that lie. Don't u watch lifetime. Never try to pursue a relationship with a married man. Would you like to be a wife with a cheating husband. You can't trust him. It's obvious he's a liar he is cheating. Don't come back on here asking how to get over a heartache when he decides to stop cheating on his wife. And go back home to her. Ooops he already does that.
Open your eyes sweetie. If he is doing this to her, what makes you think he won't do it to you? What comes around goes around. I think your friends are right. Sometimes you have to listen to your brain and not your heart because your heart will get you into trouble. If he didn't love his wife, he wouldn't go back home to her on the non-working days. You don't know why they have that set up the way they do. He is more than likely, leading you on. You need to just walk away, because he isn't going to divorce her anytime soon.
in simple words you are being had and that is fine as long as you know that. yepper, you are being used. what part of this dont' you understand hes got his cake and eat it to. yep his wife is there also
Honey he doesn't want to leave his family for you even if he doesn't love her she is his wife and he has a life with her. He is leading you on and you can either sit back and be happy to be the mistress second best to his wife or you can leave.
there is a good reason they despise him. he's married and with you. that's just wrong. he's taking you for a ride. i think you know it. you can't make him divorce his wife. he isn't going to. get out while the gettin's good and find someone who isn't married.
He is the bad one,he has 2 familys.what he is doing is wrong to his wife,son and you.If he wanted to really leave his wife he would have already divorced her.It cannot be anulled because it has been 5yrs.
What kind of idiot are you? Why would you move in with a guy who is still married, and has no intention of leaving his wife? Of course he tells you he doesn't love her. His whole life is a lie, but you choose to believe that one. Have some self respect. Move out, and find someone who is available.
He's got the wool pulled over your eyes.
ok, all your friends hate him, and everyone who has answered this question hates him too. do you think that you're the only one who sees the truth here? i find that when everyone in my life is telling me the same thing, i need to stand up and listen. i found this out only after i almost married a TOTAL jerk. if i had just listened to them, things would have gone so much easier for me.
having said that, it's absolutely CLASSIC for a man having an affair to say that he doesn't love his wife. they ALL do it. i really hope that you find the courage and self-esteem to get away from a man who is obviously using you.
Like they say why buy the cow when you can
get the milk for free..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you are in for a bumpy ride,, that man isnt gonna divorce his wife for you.. so you can forget all the promises he made..and an anullment cant stop him from being remarried..he is not planning on marrying you girl.. wake up and smell the coffee...
Why do young women sell themselves so short. Is it low self esteem? Did your daddy not show you enough love?
Do you think it is ok to be his lover? His wife probably doesn't know you exist. Call her - find out if she knows about you. I am sure on the weekend he isn't sleeping with his wife-Right? Because it's you he loves.
You are a home-wrecker. You need help. Listen to your friends and family. They want what is best for you.
The mirror must be tough on you.
TAKE YOUR FRIENDS ADVICE...MEN DONT LEAVE THEIR WIFE FOR ANOTHER WOMAN. POINT BLANK.
Your friends despise him for a reason. he's having his cake and eating it too, and you're the cake. You deserve to have someone all to yourself and he doesn't seem to be willing to do that. You can't MAKE somebody divorce somebody. You just can't. The only thing you can do is leave. One of two things will happen, he'll come chasing after you and finally follow thru with a divorce, or he WON'T and you'll know that he never intended to.
Leave him! He is taking advantage of you, and no good can come of this relationship. If he had any respect for you, he would be only with you, and not living this double life. If he leaves his wife to be with you, how do you know he won't do the same thing to you?
Looks like his behavior in this relationship with you is not going to go anywhere. You need to face this situation for what it is. bettyk
It hurts me beyond belief that you believe him.
Let's take this step by step.
1) You know this is stupid (you said that, not me.)
2) You fell in love a year ago with a guy who has been married 5 yrs and has a 3 yr-old son
3) It's obvious he doesn't love his wife....
ok, here's where it gets goofy...
4) he stays with you on working days
and
5) stays with her on non-working days.
Could that possibly be ';weekends?';
6) He is having an affair with you, he is married and has a child but he doesn't want to be the ';faulty'; (bad) guy.
Humph.
7) He has conveniently ruled out annulment because for whatever reason he would not marry again (that pretty much excludes you, right?)
So after all of the above, you want advice.
8) In fact, on top of all of this, your friends despise him.
OMG.
and your question was,
How do u make your man/woman file for nullity from his/her current marriage, which is not you?
I am not going to humor or patronize you. I truly and sincerely and honestly believe you know the answer. I really do.
I just told you what you told me.
If I just told you what you just told me, but it was me, what would YOU say?
I wish you luck. I think you are stuck. You believe this guy and he is so, so, so using you. But for whatever reason honey, you just don't see it.
Listen to your friends because I'm sure they care about you. A man that has a wife and a girlfriend who is 10 years younger than him must have a very big ego and is playing you for a fool. Get rid of him!!!!!
My M-I-L is in the same situation. They both promised to divorce other people. My mil divorced 3yrs ago, the guy is still married. He still does family functions. He says it for the kids. His kids are 30. Anyway, these men are jokers. You can't make them file.
Nullity=annulment. There are very few grounds for annulment (and they are very specific), so he probably wouldn鈥檛 qualify for it, even if he wanted to file.
But, don鈥檛 expect him to file for divorce either. Married men always tell their lovers that they don鈥檛 love their wives, and yet鈥hey stay with them.
He鈥檚 using you, and you鈥檙e allowing him to do it.
take your friends advice.
and slap him on my behalf will you, thanks.
sounds like he has the best of both worlds - he needs to choose - what a horrible situation to be in - Sorry, but you are just allowing this behaviour by staying with him.
You have chosen a very hard path. You are the other woman. All cheating husbands tell their mistress that they don't love their wives but are staying for the children or some other excuse. He is making it pretty clear that he won't be marrying you ever. He says if he did end his marriage he wouldn't remarry ever.
This guy is having his cake and eating it too. He is married and enjoys the benefits of a married man and believe me that includes sex with her. And he gets to have a little something on the side with you too. How perfect for him.
Wise up before you are 40 and still hoping this jerk will marry you. If you want kids and a husband of your own, stop dating married guys and make yourself available to single ones.
Dump him and move on. Your friends are right.
Good luck.
He's wrong in what he is doing but you are just as guilty in all of this. You know what's going on and you continue to go along with it. How do you think his wife feels? I say this because I've been in this situation and it's a horrible feeling when you find out that your relationship is all a lie. Luckily I found out a month before my wedding.
Rather you want to believe it or not if he is cheating on his wife now he will cheat on you to. By the way he is not your man he is married . Not only has he sinned but so have you.
Do you know that if he is cheating on his WIFE he will cheat on you !! A cheating husband will tell you anything you want to hear. Your so beautiful, I can't live without you!! I don't love my wife I only love you!!! What would I do without you!! Your to good to me!!! I love you so much!! Sound familiar !! I bet he has said all of these and more!! But he still goes home to his wife.
he is getting the best of both worlds why would he leave that ?? he is playing you ,,, stop being a stupid little girl and grow up..... leave him cause he won't leave her,,,,,, also.. what about his son,,, ever think about him????
Number one , u r not stupid. But this is how it is..he is lying just to placate you. He is too much of a coward to end his marriage. If he really loved you he would have done it. Instead , he wants to have the best of both worlds, and in the real world it cannot be this way. Your friends are only looking out for you they mean no harm....they care! It hurts them to see that he is using you. There are plenty of other guys out there who will love you and only you. Please consider the fact that he has a child, and in the end it's the children who suffer most, sure the child may be young...but they can sense things. Don't cheat yourself, by living a lie. Honestly, it will take time to get over him..but to get rid of him is the best choice. If he is lying to you now, do u always want to have to wonder and worry? Think about that. Good luck to u, be the bigger person and do the right thing.
your very naive, does his wife even know about you? think about it your staying in an apartment with him and on his days off from work he is going to spend time with his wife and kids and you sit there and wait for him!
go find yourself someone who will be there 100% of the time.
I know this is stupid - i fell in love- but, it has been a year since i moved with my boyfriend, who is now 5yrs married to his wife and has a 3 yr-old son.
Its so obvious that he doesnt love his wife (its shows and he said so).
He's with me on working days, stays with his family on non-working days.
The first and last time we talked about it, all he said was he doesnt want to be the faulty and bad one.
And any annulment case would only lead him to not marrying again.
Any advice? explanation?
I cannot find help from any of my friends coz they all despise him and all they want to for me to move out of the apartment and find a new beginning.How do you make your man/woman file for nullity from his/her current marriage, which is not you?
okay, let's keep this simple.
YOU'RE THE OTHER WOMAN. You're not ever going to be the wife. NOT EVER. He doesn't love you or respect you. He just sleeps with you. That's it.
If you're really gullible enough to live with a married man, and expect him to be faithful TO YOU, that's one thing. But to expect him to give up half of his money and assets to get out of a marriage, when he gets to do you now for free? That's just being stupid. And even if this was a fairy tale and he did leave his wife for you. Guess what? He'd cheat on you, too! That's what cheaters do. They cheat. DUH!!!
Grow up. You don't deserve happiness when you're stealing a man from another family. Stop thinking what you're doing is okay, get out of this man's life and move on. Doing anything else is just being his whore. And a poorly paid one at that.
Good luck.How do you make your man/woman file for nullity from his/her current marriage, which is not you?
If he didn't want to be with his wife nor love her, they wouldn't be together. So don't fall for that lie. Don't u watch lifetime. Never try to pursue a relationship with a married man. Would you like to be a wife with a cheating husband. You can't trust him. It's obvious he's a liar he is cheating. Don't come back on here asking how to get over a heartache when he decides to stop cheating on his wife. And go back home to her. Ooops he already does that.
Open your eyes sweetie. If he is doing this to her, what makes you think he won't do it to you? What comes around goes around. I think your friends are right. Sometimes you have to listen to your brain and not your heart because your heart will get you into trouble. If he didn't love his wife, he wouldn't go back home to her on the non-working days. You don't know why they have that set up the way they do. He is more than likely, leading you on. You need to just walk away, because he isn't going to divorce her anytime soon.
in simple words you are being had and that is fine as long as you know that. yepper, you are being used. what part of this dont' you understand hes got his cake and eat it to. yep his wife is there also
Honey he doesn't want to leave his family for you even if he doesn't love her she is his wife and he has a life with her. He is leading you on and you can either sit back and be happy to be the mistress second best to his wife or you can leave.
there is a good reason they despise him. he's married and with you. that's just wrong. he's taking you for a ride. i think you know it. you can't make him divorce his wife. he isn't going to. get out while the gettin's good and find someone who isn't married.
He is the bad one,he has 2 familys.what he is doing is wrong to his wife,son and you.If he wanted to really leave his wife he would have already divorced her.It cannot be anulled because it has been 5yrs.
What kind of idiot are you? Why would you move in with a guy who is still married, and has no intention of leaving his wife? Of course he tells you he doesn't love her. His whole life is a lie, but you choose to believe that one. Have some self respect. Move out, and find someone who is available.
He's got the wool pulled over your eyes.
ok, all your friends hate him, and everyone who has answered this question hates him too. do you think that you're the only one who sees the truth here? i find that when everyone in my life is telling me the same thing, i need to stand up and listen. i found this out only after i almost married a TOTAL jerk. if i had just listened to them, things would have gone so much easier for me.
having said that, it's absolutely CLASSIC for a man having an affair to say that he doesn't love his wife. they ALL do it. i really hope that you find the courage and self-esteem to get away from a man who is obviously using you.
Like they say why buy the cow when you can
get the milk for free..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you are in for a bumpy ride,, that man isnt gonna divorce his wife for you.. so you can forget all the promises he made..and an anullment cant stop him from being remarried..he is not planning on marrying you girl.. wake up and smell the coffee...
Why do young women sell themselves so short. Is it low self esteem? Did your daddy not show you enough love?
Do you think it is ok to be his lover? His wife probably doesn't know you exist. Call her - find out if she knows about you. I am sure on the weekend he isn't sleeping with his wife-Right? Because it's you he loves.
You are a home-wrecker. You need help. Listen to your friends and family. They want what is best for you.
The mirror must be tough on you.
TAKE YOUR FRIENDS ADVICE...MEN DONT LEAVE THEIR WIFE FOR ANOTHER WOMAN. POINT BLANK.
Your friends despise him for a reason. he's having his cake and eating it too, and you're the cake. You deserve to have someone all to yourself and he doesn't seem to be willing to do that. You can't MAKE somebody divorce somebody. You just can't. The only thing you can do is leave. One of two things will happen, he'll come chasing after you and finally follow thru with a divorce, or he WON'T and you'll know that he never intended to.
Leave him! He is taking advantage of you, and no good can come of this relationship. If he had any respect for you, he would be only with you, and not living this double life. If he leaves his wife to be with you, how do you know he won't do the same thing to you?
Looks like his behavior in this relationship with you is not going to go anywhere. You need to face this situation for what it is. bettyk
It hurts me beyond belief that you believe him.
Let's take this step by step.
1) You know this is stupid (you said that, not me.)
2) You fell in love a year ago with a guy who has been married 5 yrs and has a 3 yr-old son
3) It's obvious he doesn't love his wife....
ok, here's where it gets goofy...
4) he stays with you on working days
and
5) stays with her on non-working days.
Could that possibly be ';weekends?';
6) He is having an affair with you, he is married and has a child but he doesn't want to be the ';faulty'; (bad) guy.
Humph.
7) He has conveniently ruled out annulment because for whatever reason he would not marry again (that pretty much excludes you, right?)
So after all of the above, you want advice.
8) In fact, on top of all of this, your friends despise him.
OMG.
and your question was,
How do u make your man/woman file for nullity from his/her current marriage, which is not you?
I am not going to humor or patronize you. I truly and sincerely and honestly believe you know the answer. I really do.
I just told you what you told me.
If I just told you what you just told me, but it was me, what would YOU say?
I wish you luck. I think you are stuck. You believe this guy and he is so, so, so using you. But for whatever reason honey, you just don't see it.
Listen to your friends because I'm sure they care about you. A man that has a wife and a girlfriend who is 10 years younger than him must have a very big ego and is playing you for a fool. Get rid of him!!!!!
My M-I-L is in the same situation. They both promised to divorce other people. My mil divorced 3yrs ago, the guy is still married. He still does family functions. He says it for the kids. His kids are 30. Anyway, these men are jokers. You can't make them file.
Nullity=annulment. There are very few grounds for annulment (and they are very specific), so he probably wouldn鈥檛 qualify for it, even if he wanted to file.
But, don鈥檛 expect him to file for divorce either. Married men always tell their lovers that they don鈥檛 love their wives, and yet鈥hey stay with them.
He鈥檚 using you, and you鈥檙e allowing him to do it.
take your friends advice.
and slap him on my behalf will you, thanks.
sounds like he has the best of both worlds - he needs to choose - what a horrible situation to be in - Sorry, but you are just allowing this behaviour by staying with him.
You have chosen a very hard path. You are the other woman. All cheating husbands tell their mistress that they don't love their wives but are staying for the children or some other excuse. He is making it pretty clear that he won't be marrying you ever. He says if he did end his marriage he wouldn't remarry ever.
This guy is having his cake and eating it too. He is married and enjoys the benefits of a married man and believe me that includes sex with her. And he gets to have a little something on the side with you too. How perfect for him.
Wise up before you are 40 and still hoping this jerk will marry you. If you want kids and a husband of your own, stop dating married guys and make yourself available to single ones.
Dump him and move on. Your friends are right.
Good luck.
He's wrong in what he is doing but you are just as guilty in all of this. You know what's going on and you continue to go along with it. How do you think his wife feels? I say this because I've been in this situation and it's a horrible feeling when you find out that your relationship is all a lie. Luckily I found out a month before my wedding.
Rather you want to believe it or not if he is cheating on his wife now he will cheat on you to. By the way he is not your man he is married . Not only has he sinned but so have you.
Do you know that if he is cheating on his WIFE he will cheat on you !! A cheating husband will tell you anything you want to hear. Your so beautiful, I can't live without you!! I don't love my wife I only love you!!! What would I do without you!! Your to good to me!!! I love you so much!! Sound familiar !! I bet he has said all of these and more!! But he still goes home to his wife.
he is getting the best of both worlds why would he leave that ?? he is playing you ,,, stop being a stupid little girl and grow up..... leave him cause he won't leave her,,,,,, also.. what about his son,,, ever think about him????
Number one , u r not stupid. But this is how it is..he is lying just to placate you. He is too much of a coward to end his marriage. If he really loved you he would have done it. Instead , he wants to have the best of both worlds, and in the real world it cannot be this way. Your friends are only looking out for you they mean no harm....they care! It hurts them to see that he is using you. There are plenty of other guys out there who will love you and only you. Please consider the fact that he has a child, and in the end it's the children who suffer most, sure the child may be young...but they can sense things. Don't cheat yourself, by living a lie. Honestly, it will take time to get over him..but to get rid of him is the best choice. If he is lying to you now, do u always want to have to wonder and worry? Think about that. Good luck to u, be the bigger person and do the right thing.
your very naive, does his wife even know about you? think about it your staying in an apartment with him and on his days off from work he is going to spend time with his wife and kids and you sit there and wait for him!
go find yourself someone who will be there 100% of the time.
Should your boyfriend always pay and take you out?
my boyfriend has a new job,makes less money but potential for more in 5 years...he has taken me out in teh beginning of our relationship,I find now 2 months later he doesnt really take me out much,we order in though.I paid for dinner last night(he said he would) but I knew I would have to offer for us to go so I paid.But hes great,a nice guy and treats me good.Ive gone out with rich men that treat me well,bad.How do I deal with this?Should your boyfriend always pay and take you out?
i been with my man for 2 years and he ALWAYS pays..but he makes more money than me but once in a blue moon i pay here and there. i make it up to him anyway at the end of the night! :-)Should your boyfriend always pay and take you out?
Yeah it isn't ALWAYS right for the guy to pay. The girl makes money and needs to put out sometimes too. Especially if your in an exclusive relationship. You cant drain your mans pockets and then keep all your money. Stuff should always be shared..
YEA ITS NOT FAIR FOR THE GUY TO ALWAYS HAVE TO PAY FOR US....U KNOW ONCE INNA WHILE ITS OK N ACTUALLY NICE FOR US WOMEN TO TAKE OUR MAN OUT TO A NICE DINNER AND A MOVIE.....THERE IS NOTHIN WRONG WITH THAT...MY BF DOESNT LIKE IT WEN I PAY FOR IT CUZ HE BELIEVES THAT THE MEN SHOULD BUT HE IS GOOD TO ME TO I TREAT HIM ONCE INNA WHILE WEN I CAN
split the check
it is a double standard if women say men should always pays and the women think of themselves as indpendent or feminist
your bf shouldn't always pay i think the first couple dates but then you guys could split the cheack or you just pay once in awhile
i been with my man for 2 years and he ALWAYS pays..but he makes more money than me but once in a blue moon i pay here and there. i make it up to him anyway at the end of the night! :-)Should your boyfriend always pay and take you out?
Yeah it isn't ALWAYS right for the guy to pay. The girl makes money and needs to put out sometimes too. Especially if your in an exclusive relationship. You cant drain your mans pockets and then keep all your money. Stuff should always be shared..
YEA ITS NOT FAIR FOR THE GUY TO ALWAYS HAVE TO PAY FOR US....U KNOW ONCE INNA WHILE ITS OK N ACTUALLY NICE FOR US WOMEN TO TAKE OUR MAN OUT TO A NICE DINNER AND A MOVIE.....THERE IS NOTHIN WRONG WITH THAT...MY BF DOESNT LIKE IT WEN I PAY FOR IT CUZ HE BELIEVES THAT THE MEN SHOULD BUT HE IS GOOD TO ME TO I TREAT HIM ONCE INNA WHILE WEN I CAN
split the check
it is a double standard if women say men should always pays and the women think of themselves as indpendent or feminist
your bf shouldn't always pay i think the first couple dates but then you guys could split the cheack or you just pay once in awhile
How do you make yourself loose guys that have a crush on you, but keep your boyfriend?
heyyyyyyy.
i need some helpp. i don't know what to do, i'm lost. i'll give you names so my story is easier to follow.
katie-me (freshman)
kyle- my current boyfriend. (senior)
joe- freshman
chris- senior
kyle-junior
mark- sophomore.
Lately, me and my boyfriend kyle have been fighting, over silly things. could it be the age difference? anywhoo, friday night football game, my best friend maria told me four guys who liked me, all decent guys if i may say so myself. there names, kyle(the junior), mark, joe, and chris. They all are really cute, but my boyfriend i like a lot. all these guys are really really Great friends of mine, and i don't know what to do. see, my boyfriend, he is tall, cute, and has curly hair. the perfect thing to look at, but hes a bit of a perv sometimes. but we've been dating for a year and a half and i think i might love him. The question i have for you guys is... how do i let these guys down without hurting them? and now that kyle knows they like me, how can i be friends with them? one of our most recent fights was.. after our playoff soccer game, i was balling my eyes out, and kyle wasn't there. chris gave me a hug. ( i couldn't run away! he doesn't know that i know that he likes me!) and apparently taylor, (my good friend who likes chris) told kyle that i hugged chris. i turn to you yahoo-ers.
What do i do?How do you make yourself loose guys that have a crush on you, but keep your boyfriend?
Explain everything to everyone who was involved. Tell your friend that he hugged you, but you like him and your other friends as friends. Tell her and everyone who needs to know, that you love your boyfriend very much. Tell this to your boyfriend, too.How do you make yourself loose guys that have a crush on you, but keep your boyfriend?
quit talking to the other guys. so, you lose some fans. that's what happens in a relationship. it's normal. be normal.
i agree
i need some helpp. i don't know what to do, i'm lost. i'll give you names so my story is easier to follow.
katie-me (freshman)
kyle- my current boyfriend. (senior)
joe- freshman
chris- senior
kyle-junior
mark- sophomore.
Lately, me and my boyfriend kyle have been fighting, over silly things. could it be the age difference? anywhoo, friday night football game, my best friend maria told me four guys who liked me, all decent guys if i may say so myself. there names, kyle(the junior), mark, joe, and chris. They all are really cute, but my boyfriend i like a lot. all these guys are really really Great friends of mine, and i don't know what to do. see, my boyfriend, he is tall, cute, and has curly hair. the perfect thing to look at, but hes a bit of a perv sometimes. but we've been dating for a year and a half and i think i might love him. The question i have for you guys is... how do i let these guys down without hurting them? and now that kyle knows they like me, how can i be friends with them? one of our most recent fights was.. after our playoff soccer game, i was balling my eyes out, and kyle wasn't there. chris gave me a hug. ( i couldn't run away! he doesn't know that i know that he likes me!) and apparently taylor, (my good friend who likes chris) told kyle that i hugged chris. i turn to you yahoo-ers.
What do i do?How do you make yourself loose guys that have a crush on you, but keep your boyfriend?
Explain everything to everyone who was involved. Tell your friend that he hugged you, but you like him and your other friends as friends. Tell her and everyone who needs to know, that you love your boyfriend very much. Tell this to your boyfriend, too.How do you make yourself loose guys that have a crush on you, but keep your boyfriend?
quit talking to the other guys. so, you lose some fans. that's what happens in a relationship. it's normal. be normal.
i agree
How do u get your boyfriend to loose weight with out callling him fat?
i really like him but hes overweight and its not healthy and ive been trying to make the time were around each other like dates and stuff athletic every time . hes not opposed to exercising and he is willing to do what i do and so far getting him to do active activitys with me has been easy . is there anything else i can do besides that? i know its his choice but i also wanna help him loose weight and i know its an issue for him.How do u get your boyfriend to loose weight with out callling him fat?
play a sport with him, serve him healhty dinnersHow do u get your boyfriend to loose weight with out callling him fat?
I dunno, maybe you could think of the future if you decide to have children and you happen to put weight on afterwards would you like it for him or your other partner to make you lose weight?
Buy him a mirdle ! ;-)
say
';your not touching my vagina until you loose x amount of weight
The best way to tell somebody what you feel can be offensive to him (her) is to give time while waiting for an opportunity. Keep watch until the person will say it from his (her) own mouth. As for your case, it is already good as he is willing to do active activities with you. He needs more encouragement from you. If you see that what you are doing together is not working for him, there are many ways that leads to Rome. I will get back to you as soon as I find what could be best for him to give it a go.
lose your weight with protoco or acai berry
play a sport with him, serve him healhty dinnersHow do u get your boyfriend to loose weight with out callling him fat?
I dunno, maybe you could think of the future if you decide to have children and you happen to put weight on afterwards would you like it for him or your other partner to make you lose weight?
Buy him a mirdle ! ;-)
say
';your not touching my vagina until you loose x amount of weight
The best way to tell somebody what you feel can be offensive to him (her) is to give time while waiting for an opportunity. Keep watch until the person will say it from his (her) own mouth. As for your case, it is already good as he is willing to do active activities with you. He needs more encouragement from you. If you see that what you are doing together is not working for him, there are many ways that leads to Rome. I will get back to you as soon as I find what could be best for him to give it a go.
lose your weight with protoco or acai berry
How would you want your boyfriend to propose to you? Which way would make you def. say yes?? I'm just curious!
I would want him to take me out to breakfast on some exotic Island (while we're on vacation I don't want him to wake me up @ 4 in the mornin to give me breakfast in the Phillipines @ 11:00 lol) I want the day to be slightly windy but nothing too abraissive (sp) right near the sea maybe even on the rocks around the shore...I want him to sit down beside me not get on 1 knee I want my hair to be blowing in the wind and I want to wear a beautiful white dress made of a very light material I want him to be in a white linen mathing pant and shirt outfit...we both will be bare footed...or i want to be laying down on the beach with him no matter what we are wearing as long as its night time..and i want him to ask me ';Would you do anything for me?'; and I would reply ';Of course'; while looking deeply into his eyes and he would continue to say while I responded yes to every answer ';Would you steal for me?..Would you lie for me? Would you kill for me? and then THE BIG ONE Would you marry me?'; cool?How would you want your boyfriend to propose to you? Which way would make you def. say yes?? I'm just curious!
when a man proposes to you it means that he really cares about you and that he wants to spend his life with you and that he wants time alone with and that he wants to show everyone that he cares and loves you.How would you want your boyfriend to propose to you? Which way would make you def. say yes?? I'm just curious!
i proposed to my girl early in the morning. i called her parents early in the morning, cuz i knew she wouldn't answer, and asked them if i could go over, and not to wake her. and just like i loved her while being all made up, i loved her waking up in the morning. Well, i was allowed to go into her bedroom after telling her parents what i was there for, and woke her at her bed. she was very beautiful that morning...and then after about 6 months she left me...i was sad for a long, long time.
You are dreaming, girl. The only way to get a guy to propose is to make sure he knows you want a proposal. As for the island %26amp; all that crap, don't bother. All you are doing is setting yourself up for disappointment
lol write a note to santa claus, he might propose to you then
1st i wouls have to kno that i love him an already kno that hes the one and already hjave been wanting him to ask me to marry him cusz im not jus gonna marry him brcause he knows how to ask me. t mit b all romanic an everything but if hes not the right guy then im not gonna screw up my lif for dat. if he luvs me then he would get on his knee anywhere an i would say yes of course! and then i would luv him til the day i die... forever and ever...ahhhhh....
My husband proposed to me in the living room. I was busy telling him events of the day and was just rambling on. He was trying to get a word in edge wise and told me to go sit on the sofa and when I did he got down on one knee and proposed. He caught me by surprise, but I was wishing it would have been at a more romantic place or dinner somewhere other than at home. I still didn't give him an answer right away. I almost felt like I had to really think about it. I had rathar given up as we had been together for 6 years. I told myself that I wasn't going to get married after I turned 30 if he didn't ask before. Yes, I was 30 and it took a couple of days to answer. lol
I recently answered a question: Do you really need to spend a lot of money in order to have a romantic moment? By Mr. Skuddles.
My answer was yes and listed reasons why. As a result,my response was less than received as an honest answer.
My dear, you have just given credibility to my answer with your notion of romance.
You pose no mention of your deep love and devotion toward your ';other half';. All I see printed is how you want the whole event to occur with little to no regard to the importance and significance to a life altering question for the both of you.myspace codes spyware remove
when a man proposes to you it means that he really cares about you and that he wants to spend his life with you and that he wants time alone with and that he wants to show everyone that he cares and loves you.How would you want your boyfriend to propose to you? Which way would make you def. say yes?? I'm just curious!
i proposed to my girl early in the morning. i called her parents early in the morning, cuz i knew she wouldn't answer, and asked them if i could go over, and not to wake her. and just like i loved her while being all made up, i loved her waking up in the morning. Well, i was allowed to go into her bedroom after telling her parents what i was there for, and woke her at her bed. she was very beautiful that morning...and then after about 6 months she left me...i was sad for a long, long time.
You are dreaming, girl. The only way to get a guy to propose is to make sure he knows you want a proposal. As for the island %26amp; all that crap, don't bother. All you are doing is setting yourself up for disappointment
lol write a note to santa claus, he might propose to you then
1st i wouls have to kno that i love him an already kno that hes the one and already hjave been wanting him to ask me to marry him cusz im not jus gonna marry him brcause he knows how to ask me. t mit b all romanic an everything but if hes not the right guy then im not gonna screw up my lif for dat. if he luvs me then he would get on his knee anywhere an i would say yes of course! and then i would luv him til the day i die... forever and ever...ahhhhh....
My husband proposed to me in the living room. I was busy telling him events of the day and was just rambling on. He was trying to get a word in edge wise and told me to go sit on the sofa and when I did he got down on one knee and proposed. He caught me by surprise, but I was wishing it would have been at a more romantic place or dinner somewhere other than at home. I still didn't give him an answer right away. I almost felt like I had to really think about it. I had rathar given up as we had been together for 6 years. I told myself that I wasn't going to get married after I turned 30 if he didn't ask before. Yes, I was 30 and it took a couple of days to answer. lol
I recently answered a question: Do you really need to spend a lot of money in order to have a romantic moment? By Mr. Skuddles.
My answer was yes and listed reasons why. As a result,my response was less than received as an honest answer.
My dear, you have just given credibility to my answer with your notion of romance.
You pose no mention of your deep love and devotion toward your ';other half';. All I see printed is how you want the whole event to occur with little to no regard to the importance and significance to a life altering question for the both of you.
Ladies, if your husband is a construction worker, do you wash your clothes together with his?
this question is for the ladies, if your husband or boyfriend is a construction worker or any kind or labor worker like plumber for example. lets say he goes out and works in the hot weather, he sweats, he uses the portable toilet. when it rains, he gets mud all on his jeans and socks.... you get the point. when he comes home, do you wash his current outfit together with your clothes? i am asking this out of curiousity because i find it disgusting and i just want to know how many people do this. washing your clothes once in the washer doesnt make your clothes 100% clean.Ladies, if your husband is a construction worker, do you wash your clothes together with his?
No. The only reason is because I wouldn't want mud stains on my own clothing. The best way to really get his clothes scrubbed is to add 1/2-1 cup baking soda to every load of his clothes in the wash cycle and 1/2-1 cup white vinegar to the rinse cycle. This really scrubs out those stubborn stains, deodorizes, disinfects and softens the clothes. Fabric softener is not needed.Ladies, if your husband is a construction worker, do you wash your clothes together with his?
I wash our clothes together. It does not bother me, then again he does use deodorant. I have yet to have him come home and smell. Then again I don't find my boyfriend disgusting as you find your partner.
Not my husband, but my son is, (a carpenter) and the answer is NO.
His clothes get a pre-soak and then are washed in HOT water.
All that dirt comes loose and then would settle in my garments, if I gave it the chance.
The extra initial wash and spin, seem to help a LOT.
My boyfriend is not a construction worker, but my father was. My mother never washed his clothes with her clothes and neither would I. Heavily soiled clothes should not be washed with regular, every day, mildly soiled items. It just doesn't seem right. I absolutely agree with you!
Not a chance in hell...when my husband worked in his father's machine shop, I washed his greasy, stinky work clothes in a hot, sudsy wash with a good dose of Lysol cleaner. Rinsed twice and line dried. I wouldn't even dry them in the dryer!
I got the above advice from my mother-in-law, that's how she'd done it for 35 years.
I would have to say it depends what I am washing it with, jeans I would probably all wash together since they are more durable and whatnot. I wouldnt wash his work stuff with my work stuff, wouldnt want things to get ruined if spots transfer and whatnot.
Hot water, and laundry soap and whatnot may not get everything 100% like you stated but it certainly gets most of it, and keeps things fresh.
No!!! Wash them separately and then wash out the machine.
absolutely not ...... his work cloths get washed separate all the time
Haha, I don't. I wash them separately. Once, this cement stuff/drywall/portable toilet stains..got all over my jeans. So now I just wash them separately, and sometimes I have to use those pens to get stains out. Hope this helps!
My husband is an electrician and I wash his clothes with mine. I have never had a problem with his clothes ruining mine or the kids' clothes. But then he works inside mostly, and doesn't get as dirty as a plumber or carpenter. He gets dirty and sweaty....and he gets some oil on his things, but not too much. I only wash his things seperately if he has insulation, paint, or drywall on his clothes.
haha. No WAY would I wash my clothes with his clothes. Their things get extremely dirty and collect grease, dirt, mud, insects and whatever else they were near or touched that day.
Washing your clothes with his would ruin your clothes.
His should be done seperately and washed twice!!!
NO! There are too many other substances in his clothes. It will tear up the fibers of almost any other clothes you have if there are chemicals or whatever. Even mud could stain up your clothing. I didn't do it with my ex.
No. The only reason is because I wouldn't want mud stains on my own clothing. The best way to really get his clothes scrubbed is to add 1/2-1 cup baking soda to every load of his clothes in the wash cycle and 1/2-1 cup white vinegar to the rinse cycle. This really scrubs out those stubborn stains, deodorizes, disinfects and softens the clothes. Fabric softener is not needed.Ladies, if your husband is a construction worker, do you wash your clothes together with his?
I wash our clothes together. It does not bother me, then again he does use deodorant. I have yet to have him come home and smell. Then again I don't find my boyfriend disgusting as you find your partner.
Not my husband, but my son is, (a carpenter) and the answer is NO.
His clothes get a pre-soak and then are washed in HOT water.
All that dirt comes loose and then would settle in my garments, if I gave it the chance.
The extra initial wash and spin, seem to help a LOT.
My boyfriend is not a construction worker, but my father was. My mother never washed his clothes with her clothes and neither would I. Heavily soiled clothes should not be washed with regular, every day, mildly soiled items. It just doesn't seem right. I absolutely agree with you!
Not a chance in hell...when my husband worked in his father's machine shop, I washed his greasy, stinky work clothes in a hot, sudsy wash with a good dose of Lysol cleaner. Rinsed twice and line dried. I wouldn't even dry them in the dryer!
I got the above advice from my mother-in-law, that's how she'd done it for 35 years.
I would have to say it depends what I am washing it with, jeans I would probably all wash together since they are more durable and whatnot. I wouldnt wash his work stuff with my work stuff, wouldnt want things to get ruined if spots transfer and whatnot.
Hot water, and laundry soap and whatnot may not get everything 100% like you stated but it certainly gets most of it, and keeps things fresh.
No!!! Wash them separately and then wash out the machine.
absolutely not ...... his work cloths get washed separate all the time
Haha, I don't. I wash them separately. Once, this cement stuff/drywall/portable toilet stains..got all over my jeans. So now I just wash them separately, and sometimes I have to use those pens to get stains out. Hope this helps!
My husband is an electrician and I wash his clothes with mine. I have never had a problem with his clothes ruining mine or the kids' clothes. But then he works inside mostly, and doesn't get as dirty as a plumber or carpenter. He gets dirty and sweaty....and he gets some oil on his things, but not too much. I only wash his things seperately if he has insulation, paint, or drywall on his clothes.
haha. No WAY would I wash my clothes with his clothes. Their things get extremely dirty and collect grease, dirt, mud, insects and whatever else they were near or touched that day.
Washing your clothes with his would ruin your clothes.
His should be done seperately and washed twice!!!
NO! There are too many other substances in his clothes. It will tear up the fibers of almost any other clothes you have if there are chemicals or whatever. Even mud could stain up your clothing. I didn't do it with my ex.
Faked every orgasm with my boyfriend for the last year-has any women out there told your boyfriend? How?
Okay, I really need advice here. My boyfriend and I have known each other for six years, been going out for one year and been having sex for about the same time as we’re been going out. And ever since I lost my virginity to him, I’ve been faking orgasms. But no, not just one faked orgasm per ‘session’, but as many up to nine, because I thought that it was normal. He also butted heads with some of his friends who were telling him that nine or whatever number over one was almost impossible. I have no idea why I lied to him, and why I kept going. Some days I just told myself, “No, you’re not faking today. You’re going to stop all of this lying,” but I couldn’t. I thought that by lying, that I could use those faked orgasms to not only make him feel better, but me. You see, I’m not very feminine, or uber girly, not to mention that I didn’t bleed at all when I lost my virginity, which I know isn’t too-too normal. Maybe by faking orgasms I could seem more normal and more attractive?Faked every orgasm with my boyfriend for the last year-has any women out there told your boyfriend? How?
Well lying to him is going to make him feel inadequate. Even if he says it doesn't bother him and he'll try harder, its going to be in the back of his mind. What it will do is flip the coin from you being unsatisfied to him being unsatisfied. And that might not work. I would first attempt to figure out mental things to make yourself have the orgasms and then go from there.Faked every orgasm with my boyfriend for the last year-has any women out there told your boyfriend? How?
tell him or show him what he needs to do for you to get a real one
wait till u guys get into an argument and let him have it
';remember all those time i was moaning and you thought i was cumming...did i ever tell you i used to be a drama major actress??';
that should get him and youre guilt free
Why would you want to tell him? Focus on learning to enjoy it and reaching an actual orgasm, rather than focusing on telling him you have been lying to him for the past year. If you haven't had one real one, then maybe there is something wrong. Are you not enjoying yourself? Tell him things you like done that make you feel really good and he'll learn to do what you love. If you just fake it, he'll think he's doing it right when he's actually not. If you insist on telling him, so you can get it off your chest, just tell him that you have been faking it because you didn't want him to think he was doing something wrong. But if you tell him, tell him its not what he's doing, it has to do with you not knowing how to reach the ultimate goal (orgasm). My husband didn't get an orgasm til he was 19 because he didn't know how (his imagination wasn't enough, but he was able to when getting a porno as a gag gift for christmas from someone). There is something that can be done, most likely, to get you to be able to. Just explore a bit, and tell him what you like, and perhaps you'll find what it takes to get you to stop faking it, and actually have a real one.
damn how u did sex before marriage?if he leave u what u will do?duno y u guys only want a sex or this give u more pleasure everytime?
I don't think that you should tell him , that will only hurt him , and I don't think that faking is that big of a deal , It's not like you are lying to him about something serious I mean . I also think that you should sort of guide him to what feels good for you , so that you really can have one . There is no harm in experimenting ..
truth is always better...
i wouldnt tell him. I know honesty is the best policy but there are some things i think are best kept untold and this is one of them. Telling him will seriously knock his confidence, and will put him off sex for fear of doing it ';wrong'; You shouldnt have faked to begin with (but you know that) by faking he thinks that what ever he is doing is ';working'; and is undoubtadly going to repeat that over and over again to get the same result. My advise is to start your sex life all over again and take it back to the beginning. (difficult i know given your current situation) but you got your self into this mess and now its time to get you out with little damage as possible to your boyfriend. Suggest to him that you would like to try new things and new possitions to experience more with him and try and get a deeper and harder orgasm. Once you try experimenting, you can find out what position/speed etc helps you climax into a real orgasm. Then perhaps you might find it helpful and stimulating to add props and toys to your sex sessions. DONT be tempted by faking each and every time, although it is said in some cases women can fake them selfs into a real orgasm but i suggest you find the real one before opening that can of worms again.
Good luck
tell him the truth and teach him how to give you one properly...
Dear Anna, I understand your dilemma. In reality you are focusing on the wrong problem. The question in reality is why you don't have orgasms. There are a lot of women that don't have the same conception of pleasure and you might be one of them. No panic. Just take some time and find a way to please yourself, you need to please yourself before you think of the other person. If you do the contrary you risk of hitting a wall sooner or later.
that sucks! i've been there except when i told my ex it was awesome because he was a jerk. i say tell him but be really nice and see if u can work together to achieve it..if u keep lying it hurts both of you
Nine in a session is totally possible, I know I've had that. But what you need to do is start to do other positions and the such to find where your sensative areas area. It was bad to lie to begin with because then he won't change because he thinks he is satisfying you. What you need to do is try to find your spot now.
First of all l would not tell him you lied, not when you know what his reaction will be.Why don't you tell him that you want to experiment a bit and try something different, ask him what he would like you to do to him and you can tell him what you want, half the fun is trying different things, and spice things up a bit. I am sure he will want to try. Good Luck.
faking orgasms sounds very boring
instead wasting ur time faking it why not once try the real thing
it makes the difference
Well lying to him is going to make him feel inadequate. Even if he says it doesn't bother him and he'll try harder, its going to be in the back of his mind. What it will do is flip the coin from you being unsatisfied to him being unsatisfied. And that might not work. I would first attempt to figure out mental things to make yourself have the orgasms and then go from there.Faked every orgasm with my boyfriend for the last year-has any women out there told your boyfriend? How?
tell him or show him what he needs to do for you to get a real one
wait till u guys get into an argument and let him have it
';remember all those time i was moaning and you thought i was cumming...did i ever tell you i used to be a drama major actress??';
that should get him and youre guilt free
Why would you want to tell him? Focus on learning to enjoy it and reaching an actual orgasm, rather than focusing on telling him you have been lying to him for the past year. If you haven't had one real one, then maybe there is something wrong. Are you not enjoying yourself? Tell him things you like done that make you feel really good and he'll learn to do what you love. If you just fake it, he'll think he's doing it right when he's actually not. If you insist on telling him, so you can get it off your chest, just tell him that you have been faking it because you didn't want him to think he was doing something wrong. But if you tell him, tell him its not what he's doing, it has to do with you not knowing how to reach the ultimate goal (orgasm). My husband didn't get an orgasm til he was 19 because he didn't know how (his imagination wasn't enough, but he was able to when getting a porno as a gag gift for christmas from someone). There is something that can be done, most likely, to get you to be able to. Just explore a bit, and tell him what you like, and perhaps you'll find what it takes to get you to stop faking it, and actually have a real one.
damn how u did sex before marriage?if he leave u what u will do?duno y u guys only want a sex or this give u more pleasure everytime?
I don't think that you should tell him , that will only hurt him , and I don't think that faking is that big of a deal , It's not like you are lying to him about something serious I mean . I also think that you should sort of guide him to what feels good for you , so that you really can have one . There is no harm in experimenting ..
truth is always better...
i wouldnt tell him. I know honesty is the best policy but there are some things i think are best kept untold and this is one of them. Telling him will seriously knock his confidence, and will put him off sex for fear of doing it ';wrong'; You shouldnt have faked to begin with (but you know that) by faking he thinks that what ever he is doing is ';working'; and is undoubtadly going to repeat that over and over again to get the same result. My advise is to start your sex life all over again and take it back to the beginning. (difficult i know given your current situation) but you got your self into this mess and now its time to get you out with little damage as possible to your boyfriend. Suggest to him that you would like to try new things and new possitions to experience more with him and try and get a deeper and harder orgasm. Once you try experimenting, you can find out what position/speed etc helps you climax into a real orgasm. Then perhaps you might find it helpful and stimulating to add props and toys to your sex sessions. DONT be tempted by faking each and every time, although it is said in some cases women can fake them selfs into a real orgasm but i suggest you find the real one before opening that can of worms again.
Good luck
tell him the truth and teach him how to give you one properly...
Dear Anna, I understand your dilemma. In reality you are focusing on the wrong problem. The question in reality is why you don't have orgasms. There are a lot of women that don't have the same conception of pleasure and you might be one of them. No panic. Just take some time and find a way to please yourself, you need to please yourself before you think of the other person. If you do the contrary you risk of hitting a wall sooner or later.
that sucks! i've been there except when i told my ex it was awesome because he was a jerk. i say tell him but be really nice and see if u can work together to achieve it..if u keep lying it hurts both of you
Nine in a session is totally possible, I know I've had that. But what you need to do is start to do other positions and the such to find where your sensative areas area. It was bad to lie to begin with because then he won't change because he thinks he is satisfying you. What you need to do is try to find your spot now.
First of all l would not tell him you lied, not when you know what his reaction will be.Why don't you tell him that you want to experiment a bit and try something different, ask him what he would like you to do to him and you can tell him what you want, half the fun is trying different things, and spice things up a bit. I am sure he will want to try. Good Luck.
faking orgasms sounds very boring
instead wasting ur time faking it why not once try the real thing
it makes the difference
How far did you go with your boyfriend/girlfriend at 14?
Me and my boyfriend are fourteen, so i'm just curious, how far do you 14 year olds go, in detail (not meant to be gross but just so i understand clearly) with your boyfriend/girlfriend, like when making out, or how far DID you go when 14 if you're older than that?
thanks so muchHow far did you go with your boyfriend/girlfriend at 14?
i did not have a boyfriend at the age of 14. but, when i did get my first boyfriend at the age of 16 i went all the way with him...we dated for a year though.How far did you go with your boyfriend/girlfriend at 14?
go all the way life is short live it up :)
Well me just make out but other people,if they are really really in love %26amp; the boyfriend/girlfriend mean a lot to them then they will go for it
well i know a few who have gone all the way BUT It HAS ENDED UP WITH TWO GETTING ABORTIONS. dont ever go that far at your age. trusst me
we hooked up a lot we havent been naked together but he has definatly felt me up a lot and we grind or just lie on eachother and hookup;.i love to be with him and he play around and sometimes ends up between my boobs. opps :)
Hand jobs, making out, and some humping. Oh and oral sex on him. Not sure why but I never got any oral action until after I lost my virginity.
most people i know lost there virginity around 13 and 14, now that im 19 i realize that almost everyone that loses there virginity finds out in the long run that it was by the wrong person, i think you should just let them finger you, but then again, thats just going to lead to a regretful virginity loss also, dont do anything but kiss
By fourteen I had never been kissed. I had never had a boyfriend. Even though I was interested. I guess it just wasn't the right time for me but I still wanted a boyfriend.
A lot of my friends did have boyfriends though. And others were like me. I guess it was about half and half. Some had made out with their boyfriends and had oral sex. Others had no experience at all. My advice is to do what feels right. But don't do anything too mature. You are still only 14 and you need to be in an extremely committed relationship before doing anything too serious.
thanks so muchHow far did you go with your boyfriend/girlfriend at 14?
i did not have a boyfriend at the age of 14. but, when i did get my first boyfriend at the age of 16 i went all the way with him...we dated for a year though.How far did you go with your boyfriend/girlfriend at 14?
go all the way life is short live it up :)
Well me just make out but other people,if they are really really in love %26amp; the boyfriend/girlfriend mean a lot to them then they will go for it
well i know a few who have gone all the way BUT It HAS ENDED UP WITH TWO GETTING ABORTIONS. dont ever go that far at your age. trusst me
we hooked up a lot we havent been naked together but he has definatly felt me up a lot and we grind or just lie on eachother and hookup;.i love to be with him and he play around and sometimes ends up between my boobs. opps :)
Hand jobs, making out, and some humping. Oh and oral sex on him. Not sure why but I never got any oral action until after I lost my virginity.
most people i know lost there virginity around 13 and 14, now that im 19 i realize that almost everyone that loses there virginity finds out in the long run that it was by the wrong person, i think you should just let them finger you, but then again, thats just going to lead to a regretful virginity loss also, dont do anything but kiss
By fourteen I had never been kissed. I had never had a boyfriend. Even though I was interested. I guess it just wasn't the right time for me but I still wanted a boyfriend.
A lot of my friends did have boyfriends though. And others were like me. I guess it was about half and half. Some had made out with their boyfriends and had oral sex. Others had no experience at all. My advice is to do what feels right. But don't do anything too mature. You are still only 14 and you need to be in an extremely committed relationship before doing anything too serious.
Did your husband stay at the hospital with you 24/7?
When you had your first child did your husband or boyfriend stay up at the hospital with you every night you stayed? Im going in for an overnight induction so I know my boyfriend is going to stay up there the first night. The next day i'll be having the baby and probably staying another night. Im not sure how long you are kept at the hospital when you have a baby, but I figured Id be there 3 days max.
My boyfriend has commented that he will probably go home at night to sleep the extra two nights I stay up there. This makes me really really angry because I feel like I need him up there with me. Its our first baby and he needs to get used to helping out throughout the night and helping me since I will be hurting.
He said he will stay if I really want him to but he would rather go sleep at home than up at the hospital in a chair.
Would this make your angry also? or am I overreacting? Will I really need his help much in the middle of the night at the hospital?Did your husband stay at the hospital with you 24/7?
my husband stayed with me every night with both pregnancies,with our first i was there for two days with our second one i was there for just one night,it really wouldn't make me that angry if he didn't stay there to sleep over but i know he plans to in a way i actually feel bad that he does sleep over those chairs at the hospital are very uncomfortable trust me i don't know if you have ever had the chance to sleep on them but i have you just don't sleep comfortable at all no matter how much you try,you will be at the hospital where there are nurses that could help you during the night so its really not like you will not have help if you were to need it,trust me once the baby is born you will see how excited he will get, some times i feel the same way you do but there's really not much any guy can do right,i'm mean if you don't live that far away from the hospital just let him go home and rest if he really wants to.but don't let that get you madDid your husband stay at the hospital with you 24/7?
My husband did stay the night with our first son but with the second he went home both nights because after staying with the first and not getting a good sleep because of the uncomfortable sleeping arrangements he had, we were both exhausted when we got home. With the second, he was well rested when we got home and was more of a help to me. As far as you needing his help in the hospital, that is what the nurses are for.
I'm not having my husband stay just because I want him to be rested and prepared when we do finally get her home! The staff will be there to help ya out and take the baby for a couple of hours...it might even help ya rest if he's not there...I mean having a sulking man on the couch next to you huffing and puffing every time he has to toss and turn probably wouldn't make for the happiest of circumstances for ya! Congrats, congrats on your little one!!
You won't need him there after the induction night (I do understand why you would want him there that night), after that, let him sleep at home. He'll be more rested to help you after you get home and you'll have all kinds of nursing staff to help with anything you might need the other nights.
It's ok for him to not stay the entire time.
I am pregnant and i know my husband is going to want to be there the whole time whether he has to sleep on the floor or a chair it should not matter.
I don't think you are overreacting at all i can understand where you are coming from he is being a jerk.
I think you're getting some pretty rude responses... I will absolutely want my boyfriend to stay there with me for however many nights I'm there.
Maybe it's childish, but I think this is something we're going through together, and creating a family, and the family should be together at the hospital. Especially since this is your first.
Good Luck... and maybe he'll change his mind once he sees that beautfiul baby!!
I would be mad as well especially since its your first baby- I'm due today with my first baby and I think staying in the hospital is going to be scary so I've asked my boyfriend to stay with me both night that I'll be in the hospital just for support because its going to be hard plus I'm sure we'll be exhausted recovering from the whole child birthing process :)
Can't say I blame him-and no, my guy did stay with me, but we had a totally different situation and they brought him a cot at the hospital.
Now, there are nurses in the nursery to take care of your little one while you are resting after labor. It doesn't make you a bad mother for utilizing the help while it's available.
See if he'll curl up with you in the bed too.
I would want my husband to stay if possibel but at the same time I know that they dont give the men anyplace decent to sleep. So I know I will most likely tell him to go home and get a few hours of sleep at least and that way he can finish up any little things that need to be done aroudn the house as well.
Not sure what the right answer is but I also expect my boyfriend to stay with me over the night/s i'm there.
My Husband NEVER left my side!! I think he may have left to go to Wal-Mart once but that was all until we went home. He even took off a week or more from work to help out.
First of all - congrats! Second, I was induced (my 2nd baby) on 09/11/09 @ 5:30 p.m. and did not have the baby until 02:51 a.m. on the 12th and induced labor was the most painful thing in the world. I was by myself and the nurses were extra awesome. The pain you will be experiencing (not to scare) will probably make you NOT want to see him at all!
With my first though, my husband was there for the most part but at times I just wanted him to leave! I wanted to rest without worrying about how I looked, etc. (I know it sounds stupid but let's be honest). And I wanted time with the baby. He is now 7.
So no, you are not overreacting to me but do take the opportunity to have a peaceful drug-induced rest while the baby is in the nursery before the real work of motherhood begins.
Hope that helps. Men just don't get it so why trip?
:-)
Yes, my husband stayed with me the whole time while I was in the hospital. I was induced, but then I had to have a c-section. I stayed in the hospital for 4 days after that. I really needed him there after I had the c-section to help with the baby and to help me out. There was a fold-out futon-bed that he slept on. The only times my husband left me was when he went home to shower and feed the cats. We only live 10 minutes from the hospital, so he was with me most all the time. I think that is important. You will probably want him with you too. I don't think it's unreasonable to ask him. The least he could do is sleep on an uncomfortable chair / bed for a night or two.
Good luck!
First, yes, my boyfriend stayed with me 24/7. I was induced at 5AM, our daughter was born at 1:58PM. We had visitors until 11PM. I wouldn't sleep while people were there holding my baby. I just couldn't do it. So I was EXHAUSTED when everyone left. He got to sleep a little while I was being induced (before labor really began, I was too excited to sleep). That first night, I didn't even hear my daughter crying until he was already up and taking care of her.
Have you done a tour of the maternity ward yet? If not, go check it out. My hospital had these chairs that folded out (like a hide-a-bed) so he could sleep somewhat comfortably. I stayed for two nights because I had a high white blood cell count (infection).
I absolutely agree with you that your boyfriend should stay. You WILL need him. I could walk and everything, but I got weak and dizzy very easily so it was nice to have him there to help me get up and get to the bathroom. He should stay with you the entire time.
my bf was there pretty much the whole time and part of me wanted him to go home so that I could have a little me time...... yes your going to be sore but I dont think its that big of a deal if he only stays some of the time! I would def say that she should stay the first night after the baby is born, but after that you might even want him to go home :) I would say that really its not worth getting mad at now and kinda just roll with it when you have the baby! Good luck and congrats :)
It would make me angry as well. My husband made a similar comment to me, but I think he was more joking around and giving me a hard time. When it comes down to it, he may change his mind. He does need to be there with you to help you. Even if you are the one feeding, the least he can do is get up and hand you the baby. It's not fair to you, especially since you won't be getting much sleep either for him to say I want to go home so I can get rest because these chairs are uncomfortable. Not fair for the baby either. I'm sure she wants her daddy there as well. Essentially he's acting a little selfish. Maybe just talk to him again and let him know that your both in this together and that it would mean a lot to you if he was there for you in this journey.
What a goober! My hubby was at the hospital every second with me (except for once when I sent him home for stuff I forgot to put in my hospital bag). I was there 3 days and 2 nights and he was there always. I'm sure you will want your baby in your room with you all day and night and he SHOULD be there with the two of you. My hubby just KNOWS he is staying the whole time. He wants to spend all of his time with the baby you've been waiting for for 9 months. Your bf has issues.
Wow...I'm actually really surprised at these questions, because I agree - I want my husband at the hospital with me, end of story. Luckily, we are delivering at a hospital with a brand-new, state-of-the-art maternity wing, where babies and daddies are encouraged to stay in the room with mom. Even if we weren't, I would still want him to stay. Hospitals are creepy at night, and he is my husband, and it will be the first night with our firstborn...and if he wants to complain about discomfort, I would laugh...because I'm pretty sure that I'm the one that hauled around with a baby in my stomach for 40 weeks then pushed him out of my hoo-ha, lol. He can handle a night or 2 of being uncomfortable.
Just talk to your boyfriend, and try not to let anger get the best of you when you do, simply because anger is counter-productive. The hospital stay isn't about his comfort, it's about your baby's and your own, end of story. And if that's selfish or babyish, oh well. I guess I'm a selfish baby, too!!!
On a brighter note, you'll probably only have to stay in for the 2 nights...the night you are induced, and the night after...providing everything went well.
Good luck, and congrats!
My husband stayed every night. He left during the day after our son was born to go home and do a couple of errands, but my mother came to the hospital to help me.
Yes, I would be angry. You are going to need his help those first few nights. At our hospital, the nurse would bring our son in from the nursery (they told us to let them take care of him so I could recover) to nurse, but I couldn't get around well because I had a c-section. My husband helped a LOT.
See if they can get an extra bed for him. If his reason for not wanting to stay is because he doesn't want to sleep in a chair, that's crap. There are plenty of other things going on beside whether or not he is sleeping comfortable.
This might sound selfish, but he needs to make sure you have everything you need, and needs to make sure he comes second.
Hope this helps.
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Is there a reason why Sapphire M copied my answer and put it as her answer?????
Sweetie, its your hormones, you are over reacting. My husband went home to sleep at night so he could help in the day. You wont be hurting that terribly much, just sore, and you're a big girl so you can handle it. Whatever help you need at night the nurses will help with, it will be mostly feeding the baby, if you want at night they will even change him/her for you. The hard part will be upon going home. He is staying the first night, that is normal but for God sakes let the boy sleep. How is he going to help you if he is running on no sleep while you sleep nicely on a bed but he has to sleep in a chair? Thats selfish on your part. You will be ok, congratulations and don't worry all pregnant woman are like this. It just depends on the person how they react to it and how terrible they become during pregnancy.
i can understand him staying if you are having a c-section. but if its normal and everything is ok just let him sleep. otherwise he will be no help. notice most of the woman whose husbands stayed with them had c-sections and in that case i would have had mine stay. he stayed the first night for me. i let him go home after for the night and he would be back at 7 am :)
When I had my son my fiance stayed with me both nights. Well three actually I went into labor at 11pm. He stayed but I let him leave during the day. He would go shower and change. Maybe grab a bite to eat. Tell your boyfriend that they might give him a bed if they have enough. You wont really need the help through the night, the hospital nurses will bring the baby in an basically stick him or her on your boob if your breast feeding or give you the bottle. They are very helpful. My fiance slept through almost all of that. But I wouldnt worry . Once he see's the baby you will have to pry her out of his hands. good luck. Children are amazing.
I have 2 previous children from another relationship. This is mine and my husbands first child together. I never had anyone stay at the hospital with me at night when i had my other two children and me and my husband were talking one day about the baby rooming in and I told him that the baby would just go to the nursery at night after he left so that I could sleep and he told me that he was not leaving and that the baby would stay in the room with us. I thought it was so sweet. :)
When my baby was born the hospital didn't yet have private rooms in L%26amp;D so daddies couldn't stay overnight. It wasn't really a problem for me. (Baby was in the nursery due to some health concerns, and there were plenty of nurses to help out when I needed it.)
I HAVE stayed overnight with my daughter in the hospital when she was older ... the pull-out chairs are horrendously uncomfortable. I think that you're a big girl, and you should be able to manage without your boyfriend for those few hours each night. Better for him to be rested so when you DO go home, he won't be wiped out and will be able to help.
I think the problem here is that he is the 'boyfriend' and not the husband. He doesn't have any real obligation to you or the baby. It says in the Holy Bible when man and woman wed they become ';one flesh';, I have heard some situations where the male experienced the same things the wife did while pregnant. If you want that deep connection and understand from this man get married, and preferably invite Jesus into your lives.
You're being a CHILD about it! You shouldn't need help and if you do there are plenty of nurses there! There isn't any point in him being exhausted when it isn't necessary. You'll NEED him when you get home and want to get some extra sleep! Time to grow up hun, you'll have a child, you don't need to be one yourself!
Your Husband Needs Rest TOO
WHy would you be there for 3 days ?
You go home 24 hours after baby is born
the only reason you would stay there for more than 24 hours is because you had to have c-section or had computations after birth
I wouldn't be angry I would want my husband to get rest those hospital chairs are very uncomfortable
Everyone is different, If you feel angry then feel angry no one can change yor mind only you can.
And if you truely want him there then tell him hey I dont want you to Leave, thats if you have to stay for so many days
yes
You are going to need his help those first few nights. At our hospital, the nurse would bring our son in from the nursery (they told us to let them take care of him so I could recover) to nurse, but I couldn't get around well because I had a c-section. My husband helped a LOT.
See if they can get an extra bed for him. If his reason for not wanting to stay is because he doesn't want to sleep in a chair, that's crap. There are plenty of other things going on beside whether or not he is sleeping comfortable.
This might sound selfish, but he needs to make sure you have everything you need, and needs to make sure he comes second
My boyfriend has commented that he will probably go home at night to sleep the extra two nights I stay up there. This makes me really really angry because I feel like I need him up there with me. Its our first baby and he needs to get used to helping out throughout the night and helping me since I will be hurting.
He said he will stay if I really want him to but he would rather go sleep at home than up at the hospital in a chair.
Would this make your angry also? or am I overreacting? Will I really need his help much in the middle of the night at the hospital?Did your husband stay at the hospital with you 24/7?
my husband stayed with me every night with both pregnancies,with our first i was there for two days with our second one i was there for just one night,it really wouldn't make me that angry if he didn't stay there to sleep over but i know he plans to in a way i actually feel bad that he does sleep over those chairs at the hospital are very uncomfortable trust me i don't know if you have ever had the chance to sleep on them but i have you just don't sleep comfortable at all no matter how much you try,you will be at the hospital where there are nurses that could help you during the night so its really not like you will not have help if you were to need it,trust me once the baby is born you will see how excited he will get, some times i feel the same way you do but there's really not much any guy can do right,i'm mean if you don't live that far away from the hospital just let him go home and rest if he really wants to.but don't let that get you madDid your husband stay at the hospital with you 24/7?
My husband did stay the night with our first son but with the second he went home both nights because after staying with the first and not getting a good sleep because of the uncomfortable sleeping arrangements he had, we were both exhausted when we got home. With the second, he was well rested when we got home and was more of a help to me. As far as you needing his help in the hospital, that is what the nurses are for.
I'm not having my husband stay just because I want him to be rested and prepared when we do finally get her home! The staff will be there to help ya out and take the baby for a couple of hours...it might even help ya rest if he's not there...I mean having a sulking man on the couch next to you huffing and puffing every time he has to toss and turn probably wouldn't make for the happiest of circumstances for ya! Congrats, congrats on your little one!!
You won't need him there after the induction night (I do understand why you would want him there that night), after that, let him sleep at home. He'll be more rested to help you after you get home and you'll have all kinds of nursing staff to help with anything you might need the other nights.
It's ok for him to not stay the entire time.
I am pregnant and i know my husband is going to want to be there the whole time whether he has to sleep on the floor or a chair it should not matter.
I don't think you are overreacting at all i can understand where you are coming from he is being a jerk.
I think you're getting some pretty rude responses... I will absolutely want my boyfriend to stay there with me for however many nights I'm there.
Maybe it's childish, but I think this is something we're going through together, and creating a family, and the family should be together at the hospital. Especially since this is your first.
Good Luck... and maybe he'll change his mind once he sees that beautfiul baby!!
I would be mad as well especially since its your first baby- I'm due today with my first baby and I think staying in the hospital is going to be scary so I've asked my boyfriend to stay with me both night that I'll be in the hospital just for support because its going to be hard plus I'm sure we'll be exhausted recovering from the whole child birthing process :)
Can't say I blame him-and no, my guy did stay with me, but we had a totally different situation and they brought him a cot at the hospital.
Now, there are nurses in the nursery to take care of your little one while you are resting after labor. It doesn't make you a bad mother for utilizing the help while it's available.
See if he'll curl up with you in the bed too.
I would want my husband to stay if possibel but at the same time I know that they dont give the men anyplace decent to sleep. So I know I will most likely tell him to go home and get a few hours of sleep at least and that way he can finish up any little things that need to be done aroudn the house as well.
Not sure what the right answer is but I also expect my boyfriend to stay with me over the night/s i'm there.
My Husband NEVER left my side!! I think he may have left to go to Wal-Mart once but that was all until we went home. He even took off a week or more from work to help out.
First of all - congrats! Second, I was induced (my 2nd baby) on 09/11/09 @ 5:30 p.m. and did not have the baby until 02:51 a.m. on the 12th and induced labor was the most painful thing in the world. I was by myself and the nurses were extra awesome. The pain you will be experiencing (not to scare) will probably make you NOT want to see him at all!
With my first though, my husband was there for the most part but at times I just wanted him to leave! I wanted to rest without worrying about how I looked, etc. (I know it sounds stupid but let's be honest). And I wanted time with the baby. He is now 7.
So no, you are not overreacting to me but do take the opportunity to have a peaceful drug-induced rest while the baby is in the nursery before the real work of motherhood begins.
Hope that helps. Men just don't get it so why trip?
:-)
Yes, my husband stayed with me the whole time while I was in the hospital. I was induced, but then I had to have a c-section. I stayed in the hospital for 4 days after that. I really needed him there after I had the c-section to help with the baby and to help me out. There was a fold-out futon-bed that he slept on. The only times my husband left me was when he went home to shower and feed the cats. We only live 10 minutes from the hospital, so he was with me most all the time. I think that is important. You will probably want him with you too. I don't think it's unreasonable to ask him. The least he could do is sleep on an uncomfortable chair / bed for a night or two.
Good luck!
First, yes, my boyfriend stayed with me 24/7. I was induced at 5AM, our daughter was born at 1:58PM. We had visitors until 11PM. I wouldn't sleep while people were there holding my baby. I just couldn't do it. So I was EXHAUSTED when everyone left. He got to sleep a little while I was being induced (before labor really began, I was too excited to sleep). That first night, I didn't even hear my daughter crying until he was already up and taking care of her.
Have you done a tour of the maternity ward yet? If not, go check it out. My hospital had these chairs that folded out (like a hide-a-bed) so he could sleep somewhat comfortably. I stayed for two nights because I had a high white blood cell count (infection).
I absolutely agree with you that your boyfriend should stay. You WILL need him. I could walk and everything, but I got weak and dizzy very easily so it was nice to have him there to help me get up and get to the bathroom. He should stay with you the entire time.
my bf was there pretty much the whole time and part of me wanted him to go home so that I could have a little me time...... yes your going to be sore but I dont think its that big of a deal if he only stays some of the time! I would def say that she should stay the first night after the baby is born, but after that you might even want him to go home :) I would say that really its not worth getting mad at now and kinda just roll with it when you have the baby! Good luck and congrats :)
It would make me angry as well. My husband made a similar comment to me, but I think he was more joking around and giving me a hard time. When it comes down to it, he may change his mind. He does need to be there with you to help you. Even if you are the one feeding, the least he can do is get up and hand you the baby. It's not fair to you, especially since you won't be getting much sleep either for him to say I want to go home so I can get rest because these chairs are uncomfortable. Not fair for the baby either. I'm sure she wants her daddy there as well. Essentially he's acting a little selfish. Maybe just talk to him again and let him know that your both in this together and that it would mean a lot to you if he was there for you in this journey.
What a goober! My hubby was at the hospital every second with me (except for once when I sent him home for stuff I forgot to put in my hospital bag). I was there 3 days and 2 nights and he was there always. I'm sure you will want your baby in your room with you all day and night and he SHOULD be there with the two of you. My hubby just KNOWS he is staying the whole time. He wants to spend all of his time with the baby you've been waiting for for 9 months. Your bf has issues.
Wow...I'm actually really surprised at these questions, because I agree - I want my husband at the hospital with me, end of story. Luckily, we are delivering at a hospital with a brand-new, state-of-the-art maternity wing, where babies and daddies are encouraged to stay in the room with mom. Even if we weren't, I would still want him to stay. Hospitals are creepy at night, and he is my husband, and it will be the first night with our firstborn...and if he wants to complain about discomfort, I would laugh...because I'm pretty sure that I'm the one that hauled around with a baby in my stomach for 40 weeks then pushed him out of my hoo-ha, lol. He can handle a night or 2 of being uncomfortable.
Just talk to your boyfriend, and try not to let anger get the best of you when you do, simply because anger is counter-productive. The hospital stay isn't about his comfort, it's about your baby's and your own, end of story. And if that's selfish or babyish, oh well. I guess I'm a selfish baby, too!!!
On a brighter note, you'll probably only have to stay in for the 2 nights...the night you are induced, and the night after...providing everything went well.
Good luck, and congrats!
My husband stayed every night. He left during the day after our son was born to go home and do a couple of errands, but my mother came to the hospital to help me.
Yes, I would be angry. You are going to need his help those first few nights. At our hospital, the nurse would bring our son in from the nursery (they told us to let them take care of him so I could recover) to nurse, but I couldn't get around well because I had a c-section. My husband helped a LOT.
See if they can get an extra bed for him. If his reason for not wanting to stay is because he doesn't want to sleep in a chair, that's crap. There are plenty of other things going on beside whether or not he is sleeping comfortable.
This might sound selfish, but he needs to make sure you have everything you need, and needs to make sure he comes second.
Hope this helps.
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Is there a reason why Sapphire M copied my answer and put it as her answer?????
Sweetie, its your hormones, you are over reacting. My husband went home to sleep at night so he could help in the day. You wont be hurting that terribly much, just sore, and you're a big girl so you can handle it. Whatever help you need at night the nurses will help with, it will be mostly feeding the baby, if you want at night they will even change him/her for you. The hard part will be upon going home. He is staying the first night, that is normal but for God sakes let the boy sleep. How is he going to help you if he is running on no sleep while you sleep nicely on a bed but he has to sleep in a chair? Thats selfish on your part. You will be ok, congratulations and don't worry all pregnant woman are like this. It just depends on the person how they react to it and how terrible they become during pregnancy.
i can understand him staying if you are having a c-section. but if its normal and everything is ok just let him sleep. otherwise he will be no help. notice most of the woman whose husbands stayed with them had c-sections and in that case i would have had mine stay. he stayed the first night for me. i let him go home after for the night and he would be back at 7 am :)
When I had my son my fiance stayed with me both nights. Well three actually I went into labor at 11pm. He stayed but I let him leave during the day. He would go shower and change. Maybe grab a bite to eat. Tell your boyfriend that they might give him a bed if they have enough. You wont really need the help through the night, the hospital nurses will bring the baby in an basically stick him or her on your boob if your breast feeding or give you the bottle. They are very helpful. My fiance slept through almost all of that. But I wouldnt worry . Once he see's the baby you will have to pry her out of his hands. good luck. Children are amazing.
I have 2 previous children from another relationship. This is mine and my husbands first child together. I never had anyone stay at the hospital with me at night when i had my other two children and me and my husband were talking one day about the baby rooming in and I told him that the baby would just go to the nursery at night after he left so that I could sleep and he told me that he was not leaving and that the baby would stay in the room with us. I thought it was so sweet. :)
When my baby was born the hospital didn't yet have private rooms in L%26amp;D so daddies couldn't stay overnight. It wasn't really a problem for me. (Baby was in the nursery due to some health concerns, and there were plenty of nurses to help out when I needed it.)
I HAVE stayed overnight with my daughter in the hospital when she was older ... the pull-out chairs are horrendously uncomfortable. I think that you're a big girl, and you should be able to manage without your boyfriend for those few hours each night. Better for him to be rested so when you DO go home, he won't be wiped out and will be able to help.
I think the problem here is that he is the 'boyfriend' and not the husband. He doesn't have any real obligation to you or the baby. It says in the Holy Bible when man and woman wed they become ';one flesh';, I have heard some situations where the male experienced the same things the wife did while pregnant. If you want that deep connection and understand from this man get married, and preferably invite Jesus into your lives.
You're being a CHILD about it! You shouldn't need help and if you do there are plenty of nurses there! There isn't any point in him being exhausted when it isn't necessary. You'll NEED him when you get home and want to get some extra sleep! Time to grow up hun, you'll have a child, you don't need to be one yourself!
Your Husband Needs Rest TOO
WHy would you be there for 3 days ?
You go home 24 hours after baby is born
the only reason you would stay there for more than 24 hours is because you had to have c-section or had computations after birth
I wouldn't be angry I would want my husband to get rest those hospital chairs are very uncomfortable
Everyone is different, If you feel angry then feel angry no one can change yor mind only you can.
And if you truely want him there then tell him hey I dont want you to Leave, thats if you have to stay for so many days
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You are going to need his help those first few nights. At our hospital, the nurse would bring our son in from the nursery (they told us to let them take care of him so I could recover) to nurse, but I couldn't get around well because I had a c-section. My husband helped a LOT.
See if they can get an extra bed for him. If his reason for not wanting to stay is because he doesn't want to sleep in a chair, that's crap. There are plenty of other things going on beside whether or not he is sleeping comfortable.
This might sound selfish, but he needs to make sure you have everything you need, and needs to make sure he comes second
How many of you women are actually devoted to your boyfriend?
I'm looking for my female companion and I'd do all I can to keep her happy...if there are some arguments, I try to reason it out with her and make compromises...I'm even willing to adjust for her if her religion or culture comes in to play.
But it seems a lot of women I meet are really shallow minded...a little fight or disagreement leads to a break up...I really put a lot of faith into my woman, and it breaks me to see them so easily breaking such a strong bond.How many of you women are actually devoted to your boyfriend?
I am 100%.How many of you women are actually devoted to your boyfriend?
You sound like you are a man who dates little girls who aren't ready for you yet! I wish I had a man like that who would listen and comprise for our relationship, that's hard to find now a days! Even though my boyfriend and I have our problems I am 50% dedicated to him, the other 50% is dedication to myself, because I have to love myself before I can love him! And love myself enough to know when I am being disrespected and mistreated, so I know to get out of the relationship. Because I come first!
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But it seems a lot of women I meet are really shallow minded...a little fight or disagreement leads to a break up...I really put a lot of faith into my woman, and it breaks me to see them so easily breaking such a strong bond.How many of you women are actually devoted to your boyfriend?
I am 100%.How many of you women are actually devoted to your boyfriend?
You sound like you are a man who dates little girls who aren't ready for you yet! I wish I had a man like that who would listen and comprise for our relationship, that's hard to find now a days! Even though my boyfriend and I have our problems I am 50% dedicated to him, the other 50% is dedication to myself, because I have to love myself before I can love him! And love myself enough to know when I am being disrespected and mistreated, so I know to get out of the relationship. Because I come first!
You are everything that is wrong with men. Show some senseless violence and dominance! Be like me and eat raw meat!
When you moved into your first place, were you scared?
Who was with you? My boyfriend and I are moving out together and I am terrified to live on my own, pay my own bills, shop for food! We're you? How did you make your self feel better about the whole situation.When you moved into your first place, were you scared?
I sure was. I was afraid of failure BUT we had a kid and it was time for me to standon my own two feet. I made sure that I had a stable job, we could afford the rent and we stayed there for 4+ years. It was GREAT!When you moved into your first place, were you scared?
I wasn't scared, but living alone is a hassle. Some people love it, but I hate it quite frankly. I've been out of my parent's roost for a year and it royally sucks. I never have enough money for anything despite working two jobs, my boyfriend turned out to be about as lazy as they come when it comes to house/yard work (and paying bills). He eats all the food I buy (even stuff for my lunches - and I can't leave work for lunch, he can), he watches my tv, uses my internet air card, and gets pissed off when I ask where his part of the monthly expenses are.
I'm 23 and if I had to do it all over again...I'd be back in the parents house, but they've already remodeled and are using my old room.
I sure was. I was afraid of failure BUT we had a kid and it was time for me to standon my own two feet. I made sure that I had a stable job, we could afford the rent and we stayed there for 4+ years. It was GREAT!When you moved into your first place, were you scared?
I wasn't scared, but living alone is a hassle. Some people love it, but I hate it quite frankly. I've been out of my parent's roost for a year and it royally sucks. I never have enough money for anything despite working two jobs, my boyfriend turned out to be about as lazy as they come when it comes to house/yard work (and paying bills). He eats all the food I buy (even stuff for my lunches - and I can't leave work for lunch, he can), he watches my tv, uses my internet air card, and gets pissed off when I ask where his part of the monthly expenses are.
I'm 23 and if I had to do it all over again...I'd be back in the parents house, but they've already remodeled and are using my old room.
I just want your honest opinion! If you were involved with someone and it's not working out regardless of how
much you talk to this person about the same situation. You find someone better, who is a convict, on the verge of getting out in a couple of days. You still have feelings for your ex, but you know it is not going to work. You see your boyfriend, the convict everyday but on Sunday's. The convict makes you happy but your family do not approve of it and is stuck in the past with your ex ,what will you do? The convit is romantic, sweet, and takes care of what is his. The ex boyfriend used to but don't anymore.I just want your honest opinion! If you were involved with someone and it's not working out regardless of how
make yourself happy but think before jumping to someone that is locked up please been ther edone that
make yourself happy but think before jumping to someone that is locked up please been ther edone that
What are your favorite things to do with your boyfriend?
Mine are cuddling, making out, %26amp; watching movies
Also, tomorrow were going to the mall together, but he doesn't really like shopping. How can I make it fun for him as well? What are some things to do?What are your favorite things to do with your boyfriend?
Watching movies, going shopping, baking cakes, sleeping.
xxWhat are your favorite things to do with your boyfriend?
Blowing bubbles, pogosticking, making fun of dumb movies, playing baseball/softball, hugging, sometimes kissing but not really being all lovey dovey in public. :] At least that's what I would enjoy doing when the time comes that I have a boyfriend again.
Hmm, maybe you could go to the mall by your self or with your friends or something. Why make him do something he doesn't enjoy doing? Plus, it's healthy for couples to have some time apart from each other. :] Or you could work out a compromise. Go to a store you want to go to then go to one he wants to go to and keep alternating. Have fun! :D
we just usually hang round his house and watch movies and annoy each other (like poking each other, licking each other faces, slapping arsses [when one of us is bent over trying to do something like pick something up]) and oh yeah shagging. :L
and you could make if fun for him by going into the shops he wants to go in.
Nice one Matt. Lmao.
Um, you could try on 'hot outfits' ect.
Ask him what he think would look cute on you, then you guys could go for a coffee or something.
i dont have a boyfiend, i have a girlfriend.
basically we just; cuddle, kiss, play fight, go for walks, go to the movie and y'know... other things.
Just hanging out, watching movies, going doing outdoor stuff. Maybe a little sex now and then ha ha.
Maybe just go to stores he likes as well and make sure to stop at the food court.
sex sex sex and oh yeah more sex.
and just being with him and being held by him. and falling asleep in his arms %26lt;3
I like it when he comes round to mine, like we never get bored because the time just goes by really quickly....
I like his hugs ;]
I like the way he dresses ;]
I like his aftershave ;]
sex+kissing+touching+having fun.
**** him in the changing room that would be pretty fun for him! ;)
Also, tomorrow were going to the mall together, but he doesn't really like shopping. How can I make it fun for him as well? What are some things to do?What are your favorite things to do with your boyfriend?
Watching movies, going shopping, baking cakes, sleeping.
xxWhat are your favorite things to do with your boyfriend?
Blowing bubbles, pogosticking, making fun of dumb movies, playing baseball/softball, hugging, sometimes kissing but not really being all lovey dovey in public. :] At least that's what I would enjoy doing when the time comes that I have a boyfriend again.
Hmm, maybe you could go to the mall by your self or with your friends or something. Why make him do something he doesn't enjoy doing? Plus, it's healthy for couples to have some time apart from each other. :] Or you could work out a compromise. Go to a store you want to go to then go to one he wants to go to and keep alternating. Have fun! :D
we just usually hang round his house and watch movies and annoy each other (like poking each other, licking each other faces, slapping arsses [when one of us is bent over trying to do something like pick something up]) and oh yeah shagging. :L
and you could make if fun for him by going into the shops he wants to go in.
Nice one Matt. Lmao.
Um, you could try on 'hot outfits' ect.
Ask him what he think would look cute on you, then you guys could go for a coffee or something.
i dont have a boyfiend, i have a girlfriend.
basically we just; cuddle, kiss, play fight, go for walks, go to the movie and y'know... other things.
Just hanging out, watching movies, going doing outdoor stuff. Maybe a little sex now and then ha ha.
Maybe just go to stores he likes as well and make sure to stop at the food court.
sex sex sex and oh yeah more sex.
and just being with him and being held by him. and falling asleep in his arms %26lt;3
I like it when he comes round to mine, like we never get bored because the time just goes by really quickly....
I like his hugs ;]
I like the way he dresses ;]
I like his aftershave ;]
sex+kissing+touching+having fun.
**** him in the changing room that would be pretty fun for him! ;)
How do you get over being such a baby when you go without your boyfriend?
We have been together for about 7 months and for a long time he has been going over to his friends house every other weekend and at first it didnt bother me but then the closer we got the more i would cry my eyes out whenever he was gone! I make myself miserable everytime and definitely not on purpose either, i wish i could just be happy even when im not with him but its terribly hard. Any advice, it is really turning into a serious problem, i need some real advice and i appreciate it!How do you get over being such a baby when you go without your boyfriend?
I agree with Leah S but I also think that you're just not used to being without him or that you just hate being away from him, but don't worry about it :) You should go shopping or something when he's gone :) maybe hang out with some friends, get that off your mind :)How do you get over being such a baby when you go without your boyfriend?
Thoughts like that usually come when you have too much free time on your hands.... go do something, youre wasting away your youth
I agree with Leah S but I also think that you're just not used to being without him or that you just hate being away from him, but don't worry about it :) You should go shopping or something when he's gone :) maybe hang out with some friends, get that off your mind :)How do you get over being such a baby when you go without your boyfriend?
Thoughts like that usually come when you have too much free time on your hands.... go do something, youre wasting away your youth
Ways to have your first kiss with your boyfriend?
me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and a week now, and we haven't kissed yet. everyone is always chanting us on to do it, and only making it awkward. we always hug and stuff though.
does anyone have any ideas on how i can make the first move and kiss him and have it not be awkward?Ways to have your first kiss with your boyfriend?
well my first kiss with my boyfriend he actually had us watch the notebook and then he kissed me at the end when the romantic music was playing. but really, if you want to kiss him then you just have to do it. just don't do it when other people are there and are trying to get you too, because a first kiss isn't nearly as romantic in front of other people
does anyone have any ideas on how i can make the first move and kiss him and have it not be awkward?Ways to have your first kiss with your boyfriend?
well my first kiss with my boyfriend he actually had us watch the notebook and then he kissed me at the end when the romantic music was playing. but really, if you want to kiss him then you just have to do it. just don't do it when other people are there and are trying to get you too, because a first kiss isn't nearly as romantic in front of other people
Would you be weirded out if your boyfriend asked you to ';help'; him with his ';pleasure time';?
and you broke up with him like a month ago...I mean i broke up with him beacause he really grossed me out when he said stuff like that...
and he gives you gory details like how he uses shampoo as a lubricant to enhance his pleasure????? Has anyone elses boyfriend done this? I mean after like 3 weeks of dating? What did you do?
i mean does every girls boyfriend do this? or is it just him? HELP!!!
maybe from experience? Did I make the right choice by breaking up with him?Would you be weirded out if your boyfriend asked you to ';help'; him with his ';pleasure time';?
LMAO...oh boy...what a winner he is...
you most definitely did the right thing by kicking Mr Shampoo Rub Out to the curb...Would you be weirded out if your boyfriend asked you to ';help'; him with his ';pleasure time';?
Seems that could have been his way of wanting sexual attention......thats deffinitly a bad way of putting it..............of couse to be hounest i never had a gf............but at least ask in a less.........cleaning hair product way lmao.
at least ur bf didnt cheat on you.............kick him to the curve find another guy.......................myspace codes spyware remove
and he gives you gory details like how he uses shampoo as a lubricant to enhance his pleasure????? Has anyone elses boyfriend done this? I mean after like 3 weeks of dating? What did you do?
i mean does every girls boyfriend do this? or is it just him? HELP!!!
maybe from experience? Did I make the right choice by breaking up with him?Would you be weirded out if your boyfriend asked you to ';help'; him with his ';pleasure time';?
LMAO...oh boy...what a winner he is...
you most definitely did the right thing by kicking Mr Shampoo Rub Out to the curb...Would you be weirded out if your boyfriend asked you to ';help'; him with his ';pleasure time';?
Seems that could have been his way of wanting sexual attention......thats deffinitly a bad way of putting it..............of couse to be hounest i never had a gf............but at least ask in a less.........cleaning hair product way lmao.
at least ur bf didnt cheat on you.............kick him to the curve find another guy.......................
If your boyfriend can't hang out with you?
so here's the deal, i have a boyfriend and i really like him a lot and his friends say he's crazy about me! he has ADHD and takes adheral so i understand why he's always silent. but then when it comes friday, he asks if i wanna hang out saturday. we get it all planned and I'm super excited, already at the movies till five minutes before we meet he texts me and says he cant make it cause he doesn't have a ride there or back. this has happened like five times. we've been dating for like five weeks or more and we only hung out once. i told him how i felt about it. all my friends say to dump him. should I?If your boyfriend can't hang out with you?
Move On.
Move On.
Men have you ever purposely tried to make your wife jealous?
I'm not married, but I notice my current boyfriend tries his damnest to make me jealous. I think it's down right hilarious. Like when we go out he'll make it business to tell me how hot a female looks. I just laugh because it's hard for me to get jealous. One time we went to this restaurant and he was trying to flirt with our waitress lol. Well, she totally ignored him and started flirting with me (I don't get down like that, btw). The only man that has eeeeeeeeeeeever made me insanely jealous was my ex boyfriend (a.k.a) first love. I normally don't get jealous, but my ex would bring it out of me with out even trying. I mean to the point I was stalking him lol.Men have you ever purposely tried to make your wife jealous?
Some people think that a jealous partner is proof of their love... duh! It's all so 'grade school' in it's mentality. It sets the stage for unhealthy competition in a relationship which usually goes nowhere in a hurry and it's oh so boring. If he wants excitement, tell him to join the army and go jump out of a plane somewhere.Men have you ever purposely tried to make your wife jealous?
It is not making you jealous - it is normal men's behaviour. If he goes too far - that can be intentional jealousy guided. Otherwise it is casual. And so far you have taken it in the spirit it was meant to be taken - just enjoy and have fun. Both of you can have a good laugh and be happy. Intentions and actions speak for themselves so just be relaxed. Best of luck.
well to me when my wife gets jealous i think its cute and yes sometime i do it on purpose like if a girl is flirting with me or trying i will play with my wife by say ';ooo are you going to let her get away with just doing that in front of you'; but as long as its only on a playful level its a sign of love its a kinda claiming for the other person and i think its healthly from time to time to get my wife jealous.
i really think he should just concentrate on you instead of bringing up how hot a girl is or have the nerve to flirt with someone in front of you. in my opinion those are bad signs. and you may not easily be hurt but if it was another woman, i'm sure her feelings would be hurt. i just think its inconsiderate of him to do that. whats the point of making you jealous? he already has you.
NOW U R GENIOUS DO NOT THINK ALL ABOUT THE UR FREINDS ARE SAYING JUST ENGAGE IN UR ACTIVITIES
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Some people think that a jealous partner is proof of their love... duh! It's all so 'grade school' in it's mentality. It sets the stage for unhealthy competition in a relationship which usually goes nowhere in a hurry and it's oh so boring. If he wants excitement, tell him to join the army and go jump out of a plane somewhere.Men have you ever purposely tried to make your wife jealous?
It is not making you jealous - it is normal men's behaviour. If he goes too far - that can be intentional jealousy guided. Otherwise it is casual. And so far you have taken it in the spirit it was meant to be taken - just enjoy and have fun. Both of you can have a good laugh and be happy. Intentions and actions speak for themselves so just be relaxed. Best of luck.
well to me when my wife gets jealous i think its cute and yes sometime i do it on purpose like if a girl is flirting with me or trying i will play with my wife by say ';ooo are you going to let her get away with just doing that in front of you'; but as long as its only on a playful level its a sign of love its a kinda claiming for the other person and i think its healthly from time to time to get my wife jealous.
i really think he should just concentrate on you instead of bringing up how hot a girl is or have the nerve to flirt with someone in front of you. in my opinion those are bad signs. and you may not easily be hurt but if it was another woman, i'm sure her feelings would be hurt. i just think its inconsiderate of him to do that. whats the point of making you jealous? he already has you.
NOW U R GENIOUS DO NOT THINK ALL ABOUT THE UR FREINDS ARE SAYING JUST ENGAGE IN UR ACTIVITIES
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How good is the movie 2012 & is it good to watch this with your boyfriend?
I just got asked out yesterday, and we're planning on doing something together tomorrow. There's really nothing to do around here except watch a movie. And the only thing that's on right now that I wanna see is like, 2012, I've been wanting to see that. Do you think it's a good movie? He's making me make the choice and that's what I suggested but I don't want it to be a boring movie.How good is the movie 2012 %26amp; is it good to watch this with your boyfriend?
If I asked a girl out and she suggested going to see an action film the next day I'd say I'd got myself a pretty awesome girlfriend. Go for it, if he likes action films with outrageously unrealistic storylines but great special effects (which, let's face it, most boys do) then he'll like 2012. I saw it a few days ago and I'm tempted to go again :)How good is the movie 2012 %26amp; is it good to watch this with your boyfriend?
imdbvip website has this movie in great quality, i really enjoyed it.
I saw it recently, and i loved it. it has all the parts to make a fabulous movie.
Also, its a bit scary at some parts so you will have a chance to hold your date's hand or snuggle up against him for, umm, comfort, lol.
Also, it has an interesting plotline and amazing special effects, so there will be lots to talk about beofre and after the movie, this can help fill up some akward silences that you guys may have!!!
It is also just a plain out fabulous movie with drama, love, action, intensity, and plenty of suspense and surprise. There are even someparts that will make you and your bf laugh out loud!!!
i think it's alright. in my opinion its a really good movie, so why not watch it with your boyfriend?
you can watch the movie in these direct links:
Part 1: http://gotomovies.info/2009/12/06/2012-p鈥?/a>
Part 2: http://gotomovies.info/2009/12/06/979/
If you like sci-fi movies with zero scientific accuracy, lots of cheesy CGI and really bad acting, its perfect.
If I asked a girl out and she suggested going to see an action film the next day I'd say I'd got myself a pretty awesome girlfriend. Go for it, if he likes action films with outrageously unrealistic storylines but great special effects (which, let's face it, most boys do) then he'll like 2012. I saw it a few days ago and I'm tempted to go again :)How good is the movie 2012 %26amp; is it good to watch this with your boyfriend?
imdbvip website has this movie in great quality, i really enjoyed it.
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I saw it recently, and i loved it. it has all the parts to make a fabulous movie.
Also, its a bit scary at some parts so you will have a chance to hold your date's hand or snuggle up against him for, umm, comfort, lol.
Also, it has an interesting plotline and amazing special effects, so there will be lots to talk about beofre and after the movie, this can help fill up some akward silences that you guys may have!!!
It is also just a plain out fabulous movie with drama, love, action, intensity, and plenty of suspense and surprise. There are even someparts that will make you and your bf laugh out loud!!!
i think it's alright. in my opinion its a really good movie, so why not watch it with your boyfriend?
you can watch the movie in these direct links:
Part 1: http://gotomovies.info/2009/12/06/2012-p鈥?/a>
Part 2: http://gotomovies.info/2009/12/06/979/
If you like sci-fi movies with zero scientific accuracy, lots of cheesy CGI and really bad acting, its perfect.
How to find out if your boyfriend of 3 years is faithful?
we've known each other for 3 years but 1 1/2 been dating. Hes from NY and i'm from MN. its a long distance relationship but i recently moved to NY in Jan. 2008. Before i moved out here, he had a crazy ex girlfriend that i did not know about until one night she called me and told me that she is still seeing him and wanted me to know because i don't deserve to be with him, and that i can do so much better. But remember she was crazy over him, although they only dated for a couple of months, which was 6 years ago, i can't figure out why she can't let him go. Thats why i feel like they still have something going on because she keeps coming back to him. She is indeed crazy because she knows everything about me. My boyfriend tells me not to believe her because shes doing this to make his life miserable because when they use to date, he would sleep with other girls and after doing so, she went crazy, as in crazy in love with him. Until this day she continues, he tells me to pay no mind to it, but how can i not when shes calling him leaving voicemails, not only that but she calls me too. She got my # through the house caller ID. She goes over to his house to visit his mom just so she can have information on us. I KNOW shes crazy, but is there something else that is going on? Please HELP this isn't the first time that shes done this, this is the 5th time. We always have ignored her but this time, its just too much. I don't want to believe her because she knows too much but then again i don't want to believe my boyfriend as well because he's not doing anything about it!
HELP....How to find out if your boyfriend of 3 years is faithful?
I don't see how anyone can possibly answer this question without knowing all the facts.. what are all your star signs?How to find out if your boyfriend of 3 years is faithful?
I would trust your boyfriend, but most importantly, i would talk to his mother. If this crazy woman visits his mom, i bet she would know stuff. Mother knows best! And i don't think he is cheating on you.
well about your bf
believe him intel you know other wise
and about her call the police this would be considered stalking of you and your bf
well ask other ppl around him
that you know
and you can trust and
see what they say
or go on that show cheaters
yeah you'll find out
well good luck
grow up...either go to the police for harassment and tell her off, or leave...cause you obviously don't trust the guy...being an adult means taking care of yourself...so try it.
Sounds like a load of bull. Don't tell me you're actually beginning to believe her lies? Sounds like she's just jealous.
Call cheaters or do your own PI work.
Here is my opinion on the ';crazy ex-girlfriend'; issue. Guys don't date a girl that is initially crazy. They date them and during the relationship the guy drives the girl to crazytown. And if he cheated on her you can't be so sure he won't cheat on you too. I don't believe the whole, ';She was over at my house visiting my mom'; story. That sounds like total BS to me. The whole situation is just too much drama. It doesn't sound healthy for you.
Take this from a guy,your man IS messing around. You caught on to the fact that they still have an intimate connection because she's knows a lot about YOU. That is a definite cause for concern. Your man should have enough respect to keep you out of whatever else he may have going on. And of course she's going to tell you that he's no good and to leave him and blah blah blah - she wants you OUT of the picture. 6 years ago and this chick is STILL around? Believe me, its been less than 6 YEARS since they spent time. You 2 arent friends - she dont give a .... about you.
On his defense,he can see and sleep with whoever he wants.And so can YOU. You dont' own eachother and are not eachothers personal belongings. But I think its foul to not be straight up about it. At the same time,you can't expect someone who claims to love you after 3 years to just blurt out ';I'm fu--ing my ex..'; Its not going to happen and if you wait for that,you are wasting your time.
You also have to consider how crazy this girl is.Is she violent? Is she clean? God forbid they are getting busy and not using protection. This puts you danger in many ways. And who's to say she doesnt have a man of her own and doing HIM dirty. 'Cause any girl who messes with a man who's involved will also mess around on thier significant other. You might end up in more than a triangle.
I'm not saying I'm right,but I was that guy saying ';I'm not cheating'; and when my supposed girl came to visit me, I lied and said my ex was enfatuated just to make myself look like a good guy. When in reality,I was seeing the other girl for 8 months while my girl was out of state.
Remember all men cheat. Its not that we dont like the women we are with. We are carnal creatures that are weak to the flesh. We like variety. Its natural. Just look at lions,dogs....only difference we cant lick our own tails.
I suggest you let this one go and find another. It will not be a one time thing. I know its easier said than done,but you have to look out for you. You will suffer more than a broken heart. You risk getting sick, confrontation you might not expect,or worse. Its not worth it baby. Its hard to leave a 3 year relationship...or is it??? Yea, you may be cool with his family n all that,but you arent sleeping with his family,are you?
Think about YOU. Take care of YOU. Because if not,how can you possibly take care of anyone else?
im soory to say this and i know all men are not a like but 98% the same i to had a man with a crazy ex and i did not wount to beleave that anyhting was going on even thow swhe new everything abuotu me and my number and would call him while i was there and of cours he would not talk to her in front of me rather behinds my back so i triked him and suggest you do the same i told him i was going out of town and stayed at a friends house and she called me and told me that she was in my house so i drov eover and sure enogut they were in bed togehter talk about my heart falling out of my cest so my advise to you trick them both tell him and her that u are leaving for the weekend and just have some friends check your house or go over there to see for ex you needed something but you left iy behind it ok you left it behind you just wanted to amke sure it was there and you could not get a hold of yourr boyfriend to see if it was there ,,,and then when she cals you or even drive by your hosue a few times at night to see if any one there call him ask him what he is doing and if you cach him in a lie say he says he sleeping but youknwo his car is gone and no were to be found well why lie aobut you sleeping try it you might not find that anything is going on but then you might
good luck
Well I'd question the fact that she knows oh so much info about you when she's never met you in her life? are you sure the bf is.. And did she start coming over to his mom's house when your bf moved back to live with his mom or was it before that time that this chic started going over there..
I guess I'd play it save and not sure that I'd trust either one of them personally..
YOU DO HAVE THOSE OUT THERE ARE TRULY CRAZY AND JUST DON'T KNOW WHEN TO LET GO BUT WHAT I CANT UNDERSTAND IS WHY HE HAVEN'T TAKING THE PROPER ACTIONS TO GET RID OF HER BECAUSE IT SEEMS TO ME HE WANTS HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TO TO BE HONEST HE ENJOYS HER. PLEASE BELIEVE IF HE CHEATED ON HER WITH OTHER ONES HE CHEATING ON YOU TO I DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW HE STAYS IN CONTACT WITH HIM AFTER SIX YEARS AND THERE IS NO POINT IN TALKING TO HIS MOTHER BECAUSE SHE WOULD ONLY TELL U WHAT SHE WANT YOU TO KNOW DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME. I HAVE A PROBLEM WIT THE MOTHER ALLOWING HER TO COME OVER HER HOME IF SHE UNDERSTANDS THAT HER SONS WANTS NOTHING TO DO WIT THE EX SO I'M CONFUSED ITS MORE TO THIS WHOLE STORY BUT WHATEVER THE CASE I DON'T TRUST HE AND I D*** SURE DON'T TRUST HER SO GET OUT BEFORE SOMEONE GETS HURT IF NOT YOU HIM
She sounds like a real problem. Then again, what is she doing at his house when you call? If she was history 6 years ago, how did she get into his home when you called. He could have changed his phone number, his door locks or moved away from her. He is not being honest with you, she is still in his life, just forget him, long distance relationships have a very high failure rate. Now you're in NY, I hope you're not on his neighbourhood.
most girls are batshit crazy...if you are not, then she probably is; it's usually is about 50/50. if she knows anything particular about him that she is telling you to get under your skin, it is either something she knows from when they were still dating or something her crazy *** somehow found out and is trying to use to break you up. if she is really as crazy as you say she will probably go to some length (like visiting his mom) to figure out specific things to say to you to make it seem as though she is telling the truth. don't believe her until you have absolute proof. Go talk to his mom if the girl goes to visit her, see what she has to say.
But if your boyfriend is being sketchy and not really denying it then I am not sure what you are going with him anyways. Get a direct answer from him so you can tell it to the crazy ***** or find out if he is bullshitting you.
in my opinion he is diffidently cheating on you its been going on way to long to just sit there and say she is crazy hes trying to hang on to both of you with bull s**t there is just to much info. i would get rid of him and go on with your life yes it will hurt but you will get over it and find a nice truth full guy with no ropes attached
I think there is something more to this story. She may not be as crazy as you think. Yes, she is acting very invasive and the fact she knows alot about you is odd...however...are you sure she is getting this info from the mother? She may be getting it from your so called boyfriend. Yeah, there are crazy women out there who will cling to a guy and make up a story...but sometimes you get a crazy woman that has the guy leading her on and then he tells everyone else she's crazy...but then he calls her and when they are alone, he plays her.
And..he isn't doing anything about this.
You are absolutely right to be concerned about this. It could get a lot more ugly.
I've had a long distance relationship before and it was great until he moved to where I was and then it fell apart. I saw things in his personality and in his own stories that he never showed me even when he would visit often. He turned out to be the opposite of who I thought he was. I think this has happened to you as well.
My best advice would be to let this guy go. Leave me to his ex (or is she?) and get away from the drama. Find someone who respects you.
Everyone has baggage...but this is very suspicious.
Run! Find a better safer guy!
thats kind of common with exes if they break up wit der guy and then they fall for him again so they harass the girl he wit out. trust me. ignore the crap out of her. dont even talk to her.
Calmly and rationally tell your boyfriend that it's becoming a serious issue that he needs to deal with. If he refuses to do anything about it, ask him if you can take action. Also, have you considered getting the authorities involved? She is definitely overstepping your privacy rights, and would be considered a stalker!
The only reason she knows so much is because he has to be telling her these things. I don't really know of many girls who would continue to harrass their ex after 6 years. Something fishy is definitely going on. She knows when you're away, she knows that he's sleeping early, how on earth would anyone else know that? I doubt that she's crazy, I'd say that's the only excuse your boyfriend has for her behaviour - as in, he wouldn't admit to doing the wrong thing.
If he slept around on her, it's more than likely possible he is doing the same to you.
If he is serious that nothing is going on he should change his numbers and ask for a restraining order on her. If he refuses, then there's your answer.
HELP....How to find out if your boyfriend of 3 years is faithful?
I don't see how anyone can possibly answer this question without knowing all the facts.. what are all your star signs?How to find out if your boyfriend of 3 years is faithful?
I would trust your boyfriend, but most importantly, i would talk to his mother. If this crazy woman visits his mom, i bet she would know stuff. Mother knows best! And i don't think he is cheating on you.
well about your bf
believe him intel you know other wise
and about her call the police this would be considered stalking of you and your bf
well ask other ppl around him
that you know
and you can trust and
see what they say
or go on that show cheaters
yeah you'll find out
well good luck
grow up...either go to the police for harassment and tell her off, or leave...cause you obviously don't trust the guy...being an adult means taking care of yourself...so try it.
Sounds like a load of bull. Don't tell me you're actually beginning to believe her lies? Sounds like she's just jealous.
Call cheaters or do your own PI work.
Here is my opinion on the ';crazy ex-girlfriend'; issue. Guys don't date a girl that is initially crazy. They date them and during the relationship the guy drives the girl to crazytown. And if he cheated on her you can't be so sure he won't cheat on you too. I don't believe the whole, ';She was over at my house visiting my mom'; story. That sounds like total BS to me. The whole situation is just too much drama. It doesn't sound healthy for you.
Take this from a guy,your man IS messing around. You caught on to the fact that they still have an intimate connection because she's knows a lot about YOU. That is a definite cause for concern. Your man should have enough respect to keep you out of whatever else he may have going on. And of course she's going to tell you that he's no good and to leave him and blah blah blah - she wants you OUT of the picture. 6 years ago and this chick is STILL around? Believe me, its been less than 6 YEARS since they spent time. You 2 arent friends - she dont give a .... about you.
On his defense,he can see and sleep with whoever he wants.And so can YOU. You dont' own eachother and are not eachothers personal belongings. But I think its foul to not be straight up about it. At the same time,you can't expect someone who claims to love you after 3 years to just blurt out ';I'm fu--ing my ex..'; Its not going to happen and if you wait for that,you are wasting your time.
You also have to consider how crazy this girl is.Is she violent? Is she clean? God forbid they are getting busy and not using protection. This puts you danger in many ways. And who's to say she doesnt have a man of her own and doing HIM dirty. 'Cause any girl who messes with a man who's involved will also mess around on thier significant other. You might end up in more than a triangle.
I'm not saying I'm right,but I was that guy saying ';I'm not cheating'; and when my supposed girl came to visit me, I lied and said my ex was enfatuated just to make myself look like a good guy. When in reality,I was seeing the other girl for 8 months while my girl was out of state.
Remember all men cheat. Its not that we dont like the women we are with. We are carnal creatures that are weak to the flesh. We like variety. Its natural. Just look at lions,dogs....only difference we cant lick our own tails.
I suggest you let this one go and find another. It will not be a one time thing. I know its easier said than done,but you have to look out for you. You will suffer more than a broken heart. You risk getting sick, confrontation you might not expect,or worse. Its not worth it baby. Its hard to leave a 3 year relationship...or is it??? Yea, you may be cool with his family n all that,but you arent sleeping with his family,are you?
Think about YOU. Take care of YOU. Because if not,how can you possibly take care of anyone else?
im soory to say this and i know all men are not a like but 98% the same i to had a man with a crazy ex and i did not wount to beleave that anyhting was going on even thow swhe new everything abuotu me and my number and would call him while i was there and of cours he would not talk to her in front of me rather behinds my back so i triked him and suggest you do the same i told him i was going out of town and stayed at a friends house and she called me and told me that she was in my house so i drov eover and sure enogut they were in bed togehter talk about my heart falling out of my cest so my advise to you trick them both tell him and her that u are leaving for the weekend and just have some friends check your house or go over there to see for ex you needed something but you left iy behind it ok you left it behind you just wanted to amke sure it was there and you could not get a hold of yourr boyfriend to see if it was there ,,,and then when she cals you or even drive by your hosue a few times at night to see if any one there call him ask him what he is doing and if you cach him in a lie say he says he sleeping but youknwo his car is gone and no were to be found well why lie aobut you sleeping try it you might not find that anything is going on but then you might
good luck
Well I'd question the fact that she knows oh so much info about you when she's never met you in her life? are you sure the bf is.. And did she start coming over to his mom's house when your bf moved back to live with his mom or was it before that time that this chic started going over there..
I guess I'd play it save and not sure that I'd trust either one of them personally..
YOU DO HAVE THOSE OUT THERE ARE TRULY CRAZY AND JUST DON'T KNOW WHEN TO LET GO BUT WHAT I CANT UNDERSTAND IS WHY HE HAVEN'T TAKING THE PROPER ACTIONS TO GET RID OF HER BECAUSE IT SEEMS TO ME HE WANTS HIS CAKE AND EAT IT TO TO BE HONEST HE ENJOYS HER. PLEASE BELIEVE IF HE CHEATED ON HER WITH OTHER ONES HE CHEATING ON YOU TO I DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW HE STAYS IN CONTACT WITH HIM AFTER SIX YEARS AND THERE IS NO POINT IN TALKING TO HIS MOTHER BECAUSE SHE WOULD ONLY TELL U WHAT SHE WANT YOU TO KNOW DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME. I HAVE A PROBLEM WIT THE MOTHER ALLOWING HER TO COME OVER HER HOME IF SHE UNDERSTANDS THAT HER SONS WANTS NOTHING TO DO WIT THE EX SO I'M CONFUSED ITS MORE TO THIS WHOLE STORY BUT WHATEVER THE CASE I DON'T TRUST HE AND I D*** SURE DON'T TRUST HER SO GET OUT BEFORE SOMEONE GETS HURT IF NOT YOU HIM
She sounds like a real problem. Then again, what is she doing at his house when you call? If she was history 6 years ago, how did she get into his home when you called. He could have changed his phone number, his door locks or moved away from her. He is not being honest with you, she is still in his life, just forget him, long distance relationships have a very high failure rate. Now you're in NY, I hope you're not on his neighbourhood.
most girls are batshit crazy...if you are not, then she probably is; it's usually is about 50/50. if she knows anything particular about him that she is telling you to get under your skin, it is either something she knows from when they were still dating or something her crazy *** somehow found out and is trying to use to break you up. if she is really as crazy as you say she will probably go to some length (like visiting his mom) to figure out specific things to say to you to make it seem as though she is telling the truth. don't believe her until you have absolute proof. Go talk to his mom if the girl goes to visit her, see what she has to say.
But if your boyfriend is being sketchy and not really denying it then I am not sure what you are going with him anyways. Get a direct answer from him so you can tell it to the crazy ***** or find out if he is bullshitting you.
in my opinion he is diffidently cheating on you its been going on way to long to just sit there and say she is crazy hes trying to hang on to both of you with bull s**t there is just to much info. i would get rid of him and go on with your life yes it will hurt but you will get over it and find a nice truth full guy with no ropes attached
I think there is something more to this story. She may not be as crazy as you think. Yes, she is acting very invasive and the fact she knows alot about you is odd...however...are you sure she is getting this info from the mother? She may be getting it from your so called boyfriend. Yeah, there are crazy women out there who will cling to a guy and make up a story...but sometimes you get a crazy woman that has the guy leading her on and then he tells everyone else she's crazy...but then he calls her and when they are alone, he plays her.
And..he isn't doing anything about this.
You are absolutely right to be concerned about this. It could get a lot more ugly.
I've had a long distance relationship before and it was great until he moved to where I was and then it fell apart. I saw things in his personality and in his own stories that he never showed me even when he would visit often. He turned out to be the opposite of who I thought he was. I think this has happened to you as well.
My best advice would be to let this guy go. Leave me to his ex (or is she?) and get away from the drama. Find someone who respects you.
Everyone has baggage...but this is very suspicious.
Run! Find a better safer guy!
thats kind of common with exes if they break up wit der guy and then they fall for him again so they harass the girl he wit out. trust me. ignore the crap out of her. dont even talk to her.
Calmly and rationally tell your boyfriend that it's becoming a serious issue that he needs to deal with. If he refuses to do anything about it, ask him if you can take action. Also, have you considered getting the authorities involved? She is definitely overstepping your privacy rights, and would be considered a stalker!
The only reason she knows so much is because he has to be telling her these things. I don't really know of many girls who would continue to harrass their ex after 6 years. Something fishy is definitely going on. She knows when you're away, she knows that he's sleeping early, how on earth would anyone else know that? I doubt that she's crazy, I'd say that's the only excuse your boyfriend has for her behaviour - as in, he wouldn't admit to doing the wrong thing.
If he slept around on her, it's more than likely possible he is doing the same to you.
If he is serious that nothing is going on he should change his numbers and ask for a restraining order on her. If he refuses, then there's your answer.
Does it make you mad when ex-hook up buddies talk to your boyfriend?
and say things like ';i miss you'; and flirt with them? and also does it make you mad when girls continue to hit on them when hes TAKEN? and made that perfectly clear? and does it make you mad when he hangs around slutty women.. ? i have faith in our relationship but it really drives me crazy. his best friend is single and theyre always smoking at school with these slutty girls and we go to different schools and it just freaks me out because before he dated me he got with a lot of slutty women and didnt have many relationships... how do i deal with this? i was i could just put a hidden camera over his life and see what his reactions to them are but that would be kinda pyscho. am i wrong for these thoughts? :(.. and he tried to kiss another girl like half way into our relationship.. we were going through a lot of problems.. but still. thats why i have a big trust issue.Does it make you mad when ex-hook up buddies talk to your boyfriend?
i understanbd that you are at school and at the moment this seem slike evrything to you but seriously babe.. this isnt a relationship. this is a high school thing.. sounds to me like he likes hanging out with the bad girls and you cant very much stop him.
you have two choices..
1. learn to trust him and try your best not to get too jealous and accept him for what he does
2. dump him cause he has slept around already before meeting you doesnt sound like a nice guy to me that wont cheat... sorry just saying
i understanbd that you are at school and at the moment this seem slike evrything to you but seriously babe.. this isnt a relationship. this is a high school thing.. sounds to me like he likes hanging out with the bad girls and you cant very much stop him.
you have two choices..
1. learn to trust him and try your best not to get too jealous and accept him for what he does
2. dump him cause he has slept around already before meeting you doesnt sound like a nice guy to me that wont cheat... sorry just saying
Poll: make outs and i love you's?!?
when you make out with your boyfriend/girlfirend, how many times do yall or your girlfriend/boyfriend say ''i love you'' to each other? when i made out with my boyfriend last nite he said it 3 times.... what yall think?!Poll: make outs and i love you's?!?
He was probably horny. Well, if I say ';I love you'; when we're making out it's usually because I'm turned on and sex is next. My boyfriend has this thing with making out, he doesn't really like to, so I stopped making out with him 2 years ago. If we do make out, it's probably snowing. (I live in Miami, Florida) lmao XD
We've been together for 4 1/2 years, I can go without ♥Poll: make outs and i love you's?!?
We say it back and forth all the time. The thing is, when we both say I love you to each-other all the time, it's genuine and it comes from the heart because me and my boyfriend love each-other endlessly and it's a way of saying I care about YOU and only YOU.
Saying it is one thing, meaning it is another. Sometimes guys will say whatever it takes, and sometimes they really mean it.
I only said it once, because I only meant it once.
Don't know if I'll ever get to say it again.
My husband tells me every single day and I dont know how many times a day when he calls me when I get home when we are together at all times
If it is long, we say it like 6 or 7 times. When it is a short kiss, we just say it 1 time.
I don't count how many times I tell him I love him.
Keep on cunting
don't remember. To busy making out
a lot,lol
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He was probably horny. Well, if I say ';I love you'; when we're making out it's usually because I'm turned on and sex is next. My boyfriend has this thing with making out, he doesn't really like to, so I stopped making out with him 2 years ago. If we do make out, it's probably snowing. (I live in Miami, Florida) lmao XD
We've been together for 4 1/2 years, I can go without ♥Poll: make outs and i love you's?!?
We say it back and forth all the time. The thing is, when we both say I love you to each-other all the time, it's genuine and it comes from the heart because me and my boyfriend love each-other endlessly and it's a way of saying I care about YOU and only YOU.
Saying it is one thing, meaning it is another. Sometimes guys will say whatever it takes, and sometimes they really mean it.
I only said it once, because I only meant it once.
Don't know if I'll ever get to say it again.
My husband tells me every single day and I dont know how many times a day when he calls me when I get home when we are together at all times
If it is long, we say it like 6 or 7 times. When it is a short kiss, we just say it 1 time.
I don't count how many times I tell him I love him.
Keep on cunting
don't remember. To busy making out
a lot,lol
stupid.
What do you do if you love your boyfriend so much but he is cheating on you? how do you make him realize...?
I treated my boyfriend like **** for like 8 months. I broke up with him for my X for like a day. I was scared of being treated so well. Now that he has helped me fully realize how badly I treated him he is treating me like ****. Hes gotten back with me like 5 times and then broken up with me but has gotten some He*d or something and then dumped me. He loved me so much but he is scared to get hurt again. Now there is another girl envolved. We just got back together yesturday and I just found out from him best friend who is a sweetheart enough to tell me that he spent ALL NIGHT with this girl Brittany. What do I do? I Love him so much and I dont want to let him go. I can't see myself with out him but he wont let this other girl go who is just met on Saturday.What do you do if you love your boyfriend so much but he is cheating on you? how do you make him realize...?
u guys are messing around 2 much...after all this shyt happend hes just getting tired of all the drama...im going thru the same thing with my ex and er1 keeps telling me to move on i kno its hard but act like he means nuthn to u and move on then wen he confronts u on it just talk to him about starting over with a fresh new relationship...it may take time but it will b worth more then u and him going out and breaking up repeatiditlyWhat do you do if you love your boyfriend so much but he is cheating on you? how do you make him realize...?
You both never had a good relationship with each other and you never will. He resents you for being dishonest and is now just using you and you are clueless. You can't change who he is or how he acts any more than he can change you. Either accept that this is how it will be forever or move on.
You blew it. Get over it and move on.
YOU DON';T LOVE HIM AND HE DOSN';T LOVE YOU!!!!
Get a dictionary and look up what love means.
u guys are messing around 2 much...after all this shyt happend hes just getting tired of all the drama...im going thru the same thing with my ex and er1 keeps telling me to move on i kno its hard but act like he means nuthn to u and move on then wen he confronts u on it just talk to him about starting over with a fresh new relationship...it may take time but it will b worth more then u and him going out and breaking up repeatiditlyWhat do you do if you love your boyfriend so much but he is cheating on you? how do you make him realize...?
You both never had a good relationship with each other and you never will. He resents you for being dishonest and is now just using you and you are clueless. You can't change who he is or how he acts any more than he can change you. Either accept that this is how it will be forever or move on.
You blew it. Get over it and move on.
YOU DON';T LOVE HIM AND HE DOSN';T LOVE YOU!!!!
Get a dictionary and look up what love means.
How do you let your boyfriend know that you want to have sex with him when you are making out??
start to undress, and touch him below the waist How do you let your boyfriend know that you want to have sex with him when you are making out??
Just tell him. He'll think it's really hot if you are very forward and tell him exactly what you want. Or just grab his junk and take off his pants. That should send the message.
Just make sure to wear a condom and use another birth control method, because condoms aren't that great at preventing pregnancy. Use some spermicidal foam or gel you should be fine.How do you let your boyfriend know that you want to have sex with him when you are making out??
There are many ways but the way I prefer (as a boy) is lay him on a bed and unbutton his pants...
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tell him,
touch him innapropretly,
lay down
Foreplay.
Just tell him.
If he's like most men, he'll be fine with it.
Grab him kiss him grab his **** then just undo his flies and slowly undress each other
take his belf and throw it then his pants then play with his cock very simple
unbutton his pants
start unbuckling his pants, or take your top of.
lol, u r hornier than him, shame on u
Very simple...Tell him
Get on top of him
Ask him if he has a condom
tell him ';me so hornaaay'; :)
well... make a move.
simple just say has omg u wanna do it!!!!!! lol
Just tell him. He'll think it's really hot if you are very forward and tell him exactly what you want. Or just grab his junk and take off his pants. That should send the message.
Just make sure to wear a condom and use another birth control method, because condoms aren't that great at preventing pregnancy. Use some spermicidal foam or gel you should be fine.How do you let your boyfriend know that you want to have sex with him when you are making out??
There are many ways but the way I prefer (as a boy) is lay him on a bed and unbutton his pants...
P.S. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
tell him,
touch him innapropretly,
lay down
Foreplay.
Just tell him.
If he's like most men, he'll be fine with it.
Grab him kiss him grab his **** then just undo his flies and slowly undress each other
take his belf and throw it then his pants then play with his cock very simple
unbutton his pants
start unbuckling his pants, or take your top of.
lol, u r hornier than him, shame on u
Very simple...Tell him
Get on top of him
Ask him if he has a condom
tell him ';me so hornaaay'; :)
well... make a move.
simple just say has omg u wanna do it!!!!!! lol
How do you balance boyfriend vs. your friends?
I know the first rule when it comes to friends that friends are important in a woman's life than a boyfriend. But the last relationship I had was very frustrating yet stressed out. When I had a bf about three years ago I thought this could be a chance for me to be stronger before this relationship after this one. The only time I get to see my bf is when he's off from work or I'm done with classes for the day.And when I'm off on a date with my boyfriend I'd hear my friends talking crap about me saying, ';Where's Marie?'; 2nd friend: ';She's probably with her boyfriend *rolls her eyes*'; And that pisses me off because when I ask them how's there day so far when I'm with them and decided not to be with my boyfriend for few days they give me cold answer and make fun of me saying, ';Why all of a sudden you weak make up?'; ';Just to look pretty for your bf?'; Geez. You think they grow up after graduating high school by now. Sometimes I ask my friends if they want to visit me at my home so it'd be eaiser for me to hang out and have conversation. And then they strike a stuck up attitude saying, ';No way! I don't want to see you two make out like a wild animal.'; What the hell. I know to respect my friend's not to make out in front of them. I told my younger sister about this and she said that they were never your friends in the first place.They always blab out your problems, make fun of you when they shouldn't, backstab you when you needed a friend. punched you in the face with rude response.
I figure since I only have two years left until I graduate at CC school I should focus on what's important and not be so close with them. What do you think?How do you balance boyfriend vs. your friends?
You have answered your own question. Yes, just do what yo have to do and don't worry about someone else's problem or drama. Focus!How do you balance boyfriend vs. your friends?
You have an easy solution, they are getting too butt hurt about you having a boyfriend... they are just jealous. But never tell them that they are. Just ignore that kind of behavior and hang out with your sister more.
Siblings make the best friends and they stick around ya know?
Also you can come on Yahoo Answers more and help people with relationship problems hahaha
talk to them about this, maybe they dont like your boyfriend and think he's bad for you? maybe they are jealous? there are many reasons..
but to me this sounds like jealousy, you should listen to your sister, these are not good friends to be around, you should find some friends that treat you like a proper friend should and yeah you should focus on the important things in life, studies etc..
you need to find better friends. you should listen to your little sister... were right most of the time lol
if u give him what he wants when he tryna beat then its all good. he won't care. becuz he know he can get it at any time. that's just me though
ur sis is totally right
I figure since I only have two years left until I graduate at CC school I should focus on what's important and not be so close with them. What do you think?How do you balance boyfriend vs. your friends?
You have answered your own question. Yes, just do what yo have to do and don't worry about someone else's problem or drama. Focus!How do you balance boyfriend vs. your friends?
You have an easy solution, they are getting too butt hurt about you having a boyfriend... they are just jealous. But never tell them that they are. Just ignore that kind of behavior and hang out with your sister more.
Siblings make the best friends and they stick around ya know?
Also you can come on Yahoo Answers more and help people with relationship problems hahaha
talk to them about this, maybe they dont like your boyfriend and think he's bad for you? maybe they are jealous? there are many reasons..
but to me this sounds like jealousy, you should listen to your sister, these are not good friends to be around, you should find some friends that treat you like a proper friend should and yeah you should focus on the important things in life, studies etc..
you need to find better friends. you should listen to your little sister... were right most of the time lol
if u give him what he wants when he tryna beat then its all good. he won't care. becuz he know he can get it at any time. that's just me though
ur sis is totally right
How can keep stress away from the relationship and how to surprise your boyfriend - ideas please!?
Hi there,
I've been really stressed over the past few months and this inevitably reflected on my boyfriend and our relationships. I am getting out of this hard period, but i have verbally attacked my bf under pressure and i really want to make it up and make him feel nice. I apologized to him and I am really trying hard to be more relaxed. Can you help me with some ideas? And could you give me some advice on how to handle myself in such stressful situations so it doesn't reflect on my boyfriend. Thanks a million!!!How can keep stress away from the relationship and how to surprise your boyfriend - ideas please!?
Bring food, show up naked.
All joking aside. You need to find a way to relieve stress without putting it on your boy friend. Talking to friends, writing, painting, meditation, listening to music, posting stuff on yahoo answers, martial arts, yoga, running, etc. If you get upset at him about something silly apologize right away. Don't make him the only person you talk to about your problems. I dated someone for several years and almost every day something terrible happened that she had to tell me about. I went from feeling bad for her to thinking ';here we go again';. You don't want to be the person who complains about everything, at the same time you don't want to be the person where ';nothing'; is wrong when there clearly is something wrong.
Finding how to be balanced in your life is hard. How to: care but not be stressed, offer advice but not nag, open and not overwhelming, work and play, and just about everything else.How can keep stress away from the relationship and how to surprise your boyfriend - ideas please!?
go on a trip together. That's what me and my boyfriend did, we went to Cedar Point and Kings Island.
and when you get mad, just remind yourself that your boyfriend is there for you and when things hit bottom the only way to go is up. Might try listening to some calming music or play video games with him.
U COULD PERHAPS KISS HIM AND TELL HOW MUCH U LOVE HIM!!!myspace codes spyware remove
I've been really stressed over the past few months and this inevitably reflected on my boyfriend and our relationships. I am getting out of this hard period, but i have verbally attacked my bf under pressure and i really want to make it up and make him feel nice. I apologized to him and I am really trying hard to be more relaxed. Can you help me with some ideas? And could you give me some advice on how to handle myself in such stressful situations so it doesn't reflect on my boyfriend. Thanks a million!!!How can keep stress away from the relationship and how to surprise your boyfriend - ideas please!?
Bring food, show up naked.
All joking aside. You need to find a way to relieve stress without putting it on your boy friend. Talking to friends, writing, painting, meditation, listening to music, posting stuff on yahoo answers, martial arts, yoga, running, etc. If you get upset at him about something silly apologize right away. Don't make him the only person you talk to about your problems. I dated someone for several years and almost every day something terrible happened that she had to tell me about. I went from feeling bad for her to thinking ';here we go again';. You don't want to be the person who complains about everything, at the same time you don't want to be the person where ';nothing'; is wrong when there clearly is something wrong.
Finding how to be balanced in your life is hard. How to: care but not be stressed, offer advice but not nag, open and not overwhelming, work and play, and just about everything else.How can keep stress away from the relationship and how to surprise your boyfriend - ideas please!?
go on a trip together. That's what me and my boyfriend did, we went to Cedar Point and Kings Island.
and when you get mad, just remind yourself that your boyfriend is there for you and when things hit bottom the only way to go is up. Might try listening to some calming music or play video games with him.
U COULD PERHAPS KISS HIM AND TELL HOW MUCH U LOVE HIM!!!
Is it normal to go further than make out with your bf every single time you hang out?
So with my previous boyfriend, we used to hang out every day together and ofcourse i loved that; but there was one thing that bothered me.
I had once been in a relationship where it turned out the guy was just using me to get as far as he could with me; so since then i did go further than make out with my previous boyfriend, but there was always a little problem.
Since we hung out everyday, every day we ended up not having sex but going past make out. I dont know if him being a virgin has anything to do with it since he might get a ***** easier, but it kind of reminded me about the guy who used me, how we did stuff every single time we hung out.
He said that its just a way of showing affection and if i tried one day to not do more than make out he would get mad and say that im being ridiculous. cause i would say that ';i just want to chill'; not to hurt his feelings in any way.
Do you do stuff with your gf/bf every single time you guys hang out, because to me it just dosnt feel normal; i dont know.
Input please.Is it normal to go further than make out with your bf every single time you hang out?
age has a lot to do with it from 16 to 25 guys just think live breath that one thing respect yourself there is more to life then pleasing your bf live life for you and no other until you get married w children then its all about them. do what you want when you want if you are under 18 i think you should do nothing ive been down that road and it leads to nowhere good luck in lifeIs it normal to go further than make out with your bf every single time you hang out?
it is normal, if you two enjoy doing that. noone can really decide what you two do when you hang out cause its your relationship. but if you feel that its not that normal, take it slow for a while and just make out:)
It's better to just kiss, make out, chill, talk, cuddle...that's what brings couples closer in their time alone, not so much to sex. Though getting past making out is good at some point.
I had once been in a relationship where it turned out the guy was just using me to get as far as he could with me; so since then i did go further than make out with my previous boyfriend, but there was always a little problem.
Since we hung out everyday, every day we ended up not having sex but going past make out. I dont know if him being a virgin has anything to do with it since he might get a ***** easier, but it kind of reminded me about the guy who used me, how we did stuff every single time we hung out.
He said that its just a way of showing affection and if i tried one day to not do more than make out he would get mad and say that im being ridiculous. cause i would say that ';i just want to chill'; not to hurt his feelings in any way.
Do you do stuff with your gf/bf every single time you guys hang out, because to me it just dosnt feel normal; i dont know.
Input please.Is it normal to go further than make out with your bf every single time you hang out?
age has a lot to do with it from 16 to 25 guys just think live breath that one thing respect yourself there is more to life then pleasing your bf live life for you and no other until you get married w children then its all about them. do what you want when you want if you are under 18 i think you should do nothing ive been down that road and it leads to nowhere good luck in lifeIs it normal to go further than make out with your bf every single time you hang out?
it is normal, if you two enjoy doing that. noone can really decide what you two do when you hang out cause its your relationship. but if you feel that its not that normal, take it slow for a while and just make out:)
It's better to just kiss, make out, chill, talk, cuddle...that's what brings couples closer in their time alone, not so much to sex. Though getting past making out is good at some point.
How to make your vag taste good.?
my boyfriend wants to eat me out, and im worried about how it will taste. i wash myself everyday with mild soap and water.
i eat aloooooooooooot of grapes, does this change anything??How to make your vag taste good.?
unlike men, whose semen taste disgusting, vaginal fluid does not really have a taste to it, so it does not really matter to them. Pineapples and cranberries have been said to make it taste sweeter, but don't fret about it, because he won't care how you taste, he is gonna care about how you react to him eating you out ( because men like to sexually please their partners, like the same way we want to please them)How to make your vag taste good.?
I actually wanted to ask the same thing... my boyfriend hasn't really commented on how I taste though and doesn't seem to have much problem going down on me, so, guess I'm fine?
Oh, I heard from someone that BC pills make you taste more bitter.
I was told that fruits make u taste sweeter. I also heard that yogurt works. My bestie eats STRAWBERRY Yoplat Yogurt.
Tell your boyfriend to stick his dick in you and move very fast and this way when he goes to eat you out and it taste bad u just say it's ur dick.
Eating lots of fruits will make it taste sweeter, eating lots of meat will make it bitter. Showering is good.
don't eat a lot of meat
vegetarians/vegans taste better! =P
pineapples make it fruity
I once read.. that pinneapples and cranberry juice help your VAG taste good...
eat good stuff?
hummmmmmmm
i eat aloooooooooooot of grapes, does this change anything??How to make your vag taste good.?
unlike men, whose semen taste disgusting, vaginal fluid does not really have a taste to it, so it does not really matter to them. Pineapples and cranberries have been said to make it taste sweeter, but don't fret about it, because he won't care how you taste, he is gonna care about how you react to him eating you out ( because men like to sexually please their partners, like the same way we want to please them)How to make your vag taste good.?
I actually wanted to ask the same thing... my boyfriend hasn't really commented on how I taste though and doesn't seem to have much problem going down on me, so, guess I'm fine?
Oh, I heard from someone that BC pills make you taste more bitter.
I was told that fruits make u taste sweeter. I also heard that yogurt works. My bestie eats STRAWBERRY Yoplat Yogurt.
Tell your boyfriend to stick his dick in you and move very fast and this way when he goes to eat you out and it taste bad u just say it's ur dick.
Eating lots of fruits will make it taste sweeter, eating lots of meat will make it bitter. Showering is good.
don't eat a lot of meat
vegetarians/vegans taste better! =P
pineapples make it fruity
I once read.. that pinneapples and cranberry juice help your VAG taste good...
eat good stuff?
hummmmmmmm
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