Girls: Do you go dutch or make your boyfriend pay?

Do you pay for your own meals when you go out with your boyfriend or take turns in paying the bill? My fiance and I when we were dating, we either go dutch or take turns in paying the bills. He wants to pay but I always offer to spilt the bill since we are still in college and don't earn much. He's a scorpio by the way and I am a cancer.





Also how high maintainence are you? Do you have to fine dine everytime you go out or are you happy with just a simple meal at a small cafe or school cateen or at home? I don't mine having my food anywhere as long as I'm with my boyfriend. It doesn't matter where we dine.





Do state your sun sign, moon sign, venus and rising signs.





I'm a cancer sun, aries moon, cancer venus and mars and libra risingGirls: Do you go dutch or make your boyfriend pay?
Usually the guy pays for me. I have offered to split every time but they never let me. I'm a Leo and I'm not going to lie, I do expect that kind of stuff but I also do not mind paying at all. I have dated many Leo men and those are the ones that like to pamper their girls.





I do not care where we dine but if he does take me somewhere fancy then that just makes me love him even more because, I'm not going to deny it... I'm a Leo.





(I bet I'll get like 20 TD just for writing this...)Girls: Do you go dutch or make your boyfriend pay?
depends on the guy and what is being paid for, if its just a small thing i'm buying and he offers to pay i'll say yeah but if its things like meals i will go half, but if the guy is absolutely insistent i don't argue and try to get all 'independent woman' on him





Gemini sun


aries moon


capricorn rising


gemini venus


aries mars
i go dutch when i can (which is most of the time). if i have the money why not pay for myself? i don't feel like a guy has to fork over the cash for my part of the check every time we go out. also im not high maintenance at all. i don't mind going to a cafe or a diner or something.





scorpio sun, virgo moon, sagittarius venus, taurus rising.
If I suggest, I pay or split the bill. If it's his treat, than I allow it to be and rack up his tab :)
always pay for a woman
I don't like going dutch because it means I have to do math :P


I do offer to pick up the bill though. I have trouble letting someone else pay for me.


I feel like I'm a cheap scum bag who's taking advantage of them.


Financially, I'd rather do the giving than the taking.


[when I had a boyfriend] we would take turns paying the bill. I like that because it's fair.


We made about the same amount of money.





I don't think I'm high maintenance. I feel out of place in really fancy places.


I'm a very casual person. Diners are splendid. Getting fast food's fine too.


It doesn't matter where I'm at, only who I'm with.





cancer sun, aries moon, gemini venus, virgo mars, leo rising
1. I would rather take turns, and I have to fight them to let me pay. I would rather go dutch, but I hate fighting them after a while..





2. I roll out of bed, put on contacts when I'm not late for class. I save my effort/maintenance for evenings. I don't really like wearing tight clothes or heels, it's not comfy, and when I do, I get a lot of attention, and I don't like it. I'd rather save it for special times.





I don't eat breakfast, but I eat healthy and balanced meals. I don't like greasy food. I love healthy/natural things. I look after my body and I go to the gym.





3. Sun in Libra, Moon in Sag, Venus in Libra, Scorpio Rising
i don't usually like the idea of he's paying for my meal when we're dating. usually i would want to split equally among us. it's just weird for me to have a free meal even if he's being nice. not in the beginning of the relationship but when it gets serious and i get to trust him more than yes i would like his treat sometimes. not all the times... maybe for special event or something...





but i don't mind paying for my friends and him. i love giving them treats... and i don't know why is that... haha





i must said that i have a high maintainence but i am flexible. i don't really mind where i will eat whether a small cafe, having picnic, big restaurant, stalls.... as long as it is clean and the food is good and fresh, i don't really care much... i prefer home made cook meals actually... and i love to eat with someone... whether my friends, family or boyfriends... i just don't like to eat alone...





i am scorpio sun, libra moon, scorpio rising and scorpio venus
I don't mind splitting the bills at all, but my bf always insist on paying for me. But when he is low on money, i cover for him as a payback for all the times he's paid for me.





I'm extremely low maintenance. Fine dinning is a once in a blue moon thing for me. But, I don't expect to spend loads of money whenever we are spending time together. I just enjoy simply hanging out with my guy. We don't always see each other every other day, so it makes me feel good already to just see him when we do go out. The simple things in life are what I enjoy the most.





Cap sun/libra moon/scorpio venus/cap rising
He should pay for dates as long as we're 'dating' -- once we're in a relationship, I don't mind splitting or even paying the bill myself.





I would never in a million years ASK a guy out on a date. A traditional lady, I prefer to attract rather than chase.





I'm a Capricorn Sun, Virgo Moon, Capricorn Venus, Leo Rising.





I don't care where we eat -- fancy places tend to make me a little nervous (I prefer quiet, mid-price-range dates where we can talk, where there aren't too many people and where I don't feel any pressure), but I am also impressed by class and culture -- so, take me to a fancy place if you can afford it, but if you can't, don't -- because I'm not impressed by someone who recklessly spends money. (And I will figure out pretty quickly what you can and can't afford.)
This is one of my problems.


When I go out with male friends.. I'm being platonic.. and I'll offer to pay for the entire thing.. and I will force it.. even if they fight with me, because I'm generous with them and it's just money.


But then sometimes they think I like them because I do that.. so then I assess and subconcsiously 'test' them seeing if they will at least try harder to offer to pay for the whole thing or go dutch etc.. I wind up offering to go dutch or offering to pay for the whole **** thing again.. I don't bring it up to them though because I'm not high maintenance and I dont want to seem like a gold digging *****, but it makes me hate cheap frugal guys with such a passion.


For me, empathy is important..and in these situations some guys lack empathy (esp when most of them make way more than me) and second is generousity and not being cheap asses, which is part of empathy.





leo sun


libra rising


pisces moon


cancer venus


leo mars