Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How can you truely make your boyfriend happy?

I recently moved back into the state and am living with my boyfriend right now even though we had originally agreed I would get a place of my own. I didn't, and still don't have the funds to get my own place, and he told me to just stay here. I am working, and pay my own bills but don't ever have extra to help him out like I want to, and I feel like he resents me for it. He says everythings ok, but how do I really know that it is and that he is really happy?How can you truely make your boyfriend happy?
I always believe that even if you stay with some one for years together, that doesn鈥檛 mean you know that person, I feel you too our in the same category, for guys its not the money that counts or who is spending more that would come to the head, but are you there for him when he needs you? Are you emotionally keeping him happy? And guys do have that sudden burst of madness where he will tell you to do something, which he too will know that its foolish, but he will only be asking you to do it because he takes you as his partner, though no body can be 100% perfect, if you even come close to all those, I am sure he wouldn鈥檛 mind you staying over there, its always not about the money, honey.


What my suggestion would be just be low till you get your finances in place, so that even if he minds you staying there, or things go bad, you can always move on into your own place, but if anything goes wrong now, it will be very difficult for you to handle and concentrate, remember one thing sometimes people tend to try to make things right and in the melee, they make it worst, so lay low and just be a good girl friend now and stop thinking that your not doing much for him or your being a burden, otherwise it would show in your attitude, which could spoil things, just be normal and the main thing is to avoid fights/arguments as much as possible, no matter whose fault it is.How can you truely make your boyfriend happy?
All you gotta do is TAKE RESPONIBILITY. If he sees that your paying your half the rent, your bills and taking care of business...TRUST ME that will ease tension from his shoulders (REGARDLESS IF HE'S TELLING YOU ITS ';OK';). A man like a woman who knows how to get things done, not a girl who depends on her man. TRUST ME....
that is a tough one because you are probably crowding his space - I would suggest experimenting in bed so that he would hate to have you not be there. There is nothing like waking up in the morning while the girlfriend is going downtown.
that's hard cause you don't want to annoy him with questions like that. just try to be happy and do things for him but don't crowd him.
yea, same here. how can you truely make your boyfriend happy when he doesn't communicate?

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