How to make your boyfriend feel better when...?

you feel like the reason he's depressed is revolving around you? Not directly you, but AROUND you..


He got in trouble with this parents the other day concerning something he decided to do because of me(it's not like i told him to. I actually advised against it. But he did anyway)





not only that, but I feel bad because sex has become less interesting lately, and I just tell him to stop and that i'm tired, and let him walk himself to the door without giving him a hug or anything. (we've been going out for 3 years, we're engaged but don't live with each other.





not to mention there are times where i've been lazy and made him go into stores alone, and made him do things i could clearly do out of laziness





I feel so terrible and that i'm neglecting him and i want him to know I love him and appreciate what he does for me....But HOW?





I wont see him till a day or so but i dont know if i should buy him a gift, what to say or what to do...





I'd rather keep it as far away from sexual things, because I want him to know it's a real apology, and not let him think everything leads to sex, because lately it seems like it does(and no, i know he really loves me)





I love him honestly, I just feel like lately I haven't been treating him how i should and want to make it up to him in some way...But i have no idea how to cheer him up








Help me please, I need help :(





NOTE: We're NOT going to give up this relationship, so either tell me things i could do to make him feel better IN this relationship, or leave.How to make your boyfriend feel better when...?
1. Start walking him to the door and give him a dang hug and kiss 鈾?


2. If sex isn't interesting anymore, don't have it. Cuddle! Watch a movie and just cuddle!


3. STOP BEING LAZY. Show him some respect and fufill the woman's role: go to the store and don't make him go alone.


4. SMILE! : ) Don't be so drab all the time or he will think you don't like being around him. Smiling and be happy will prove you love him.


5. Stop taking advantage of him {making him do everything for you with nothing in return} You have to put in an effort.


6. Make him a really nice dinner 鈾? Yes, this is going to mean getting off your lazy bum and cooking. But he will love it and appriciate it.





My tips on cheering your bf up : )How to make your boyfriend feel better when...?
Okay, well you already said what the problem is...you are being lazy.





Start making an effort, relationships take work, hard work, and if you are lazy then it won't last, well it might, but if it does it won't be a good relationship.





So, stop being lazy, and start being a great fiance.
hallmark has a card section called ';between you and me';, go check them out. they say alot of meaningful things on there that i'm sure you can find one that's perfect for you to give him. and other than that, just try to do things with him from now on. whether you're not feeling up to it or not, walk in the store and hold his hand..it'll make all the difference :)
Get involved in a good church or ministry. I recommend lifechurch.tv Also, you can get couples books at Mardek or any other Christian bookstore. God will refresh all things and work His glory in your relationship and future marriage if you let Him.
Just let him know you have been lazy and expecting to much from him and you are sorry. Be honest and loving. Let him know how you love him and you are going to make more of an effort to help with things.
Ahh true love


talk to him and make sure he understands how much you really do love him, Buying a gift is completely acceptable and is recommended bye ME:D


Good luck!!








Note: Doesn't everything lead to sex???
I think you've been very selfish, i would take him out,(dinner, see a game do whatever he likes doing, tell him how you feel and that you do love him etc..if you don't you might lose him all together.just cater to your man WOMAN!
i agree with pancake take a vacation for a while for get about problems and just have fun.......
uh-oh. I just told someone else on Yahoo Answers to Dump the b*tch and get a better girlfriend!
Spend some $$ and take a nice vacation together.
present can say much better
You guys should do a 5 week recovery.


Everyday, you two should do a cool activity both of you find interesting.


Make some time for both of you.


You should cook, or try to, an extravagant dinner for him finished with candles, flowers, and a movie.


Take a vacation this summer, and go on an adventure seeking odyssey.


Give him five coupons, and tell him to write five different things for you to do for him.


Good luck.





:)
It could be that you aren't doing anything for him! You ask for advice that doesn't have to do with sex, yet, you've given him sex. He's a boy, and if he's sad about his relationship, then it's going to be being turned down sex. This is why I think sex should be kept until marriage. It ruins a relationship... There isn't much you can do besides telling him that you love him. You could give him a peck on the cheek and giggle or something, to make him feel happy, but really, a present won't do anything for him.
get him something nice so he knows you care and give him lots of love (not suggesting that you have to do this by sex). i think it would be good it you showed how much you love him. go shopping with him, hold his hand, go for general walks where you can just talk about anything. it might be good if you sent him some texts saying that you miss him.


also say that you are sorry for being lazy and neglecting him. tell him you feel bad and you truly do love him.


good luck =) x


PS it might be good to get him a gift that relates to your relationship or is very personal (i am sure he will like that) x