Monday, August 16, 2010

Is it wrong for your boyfriend to make sexual comments about other women in front of your face?

When we are out he contantly is making comments about other women. I feel this is disrespectful towards me. He also is not very affectionate with me....refuses to hold hands etc. What should I do or how should I handle this.Is it wrong for your boyfriend to make sexual comments about other women in front of your face?
you should dump his a$$Is it wrong for your boyfriend to make sexual comments about other women in front of your face?
Does he know it bothers you? If not, tell him.


If he is knowingly disrespecting you, then I'd say dump him.
He's wrong,but not if you don't speak up .


Tell him it hurts your feelings and if he continues to direspect you,you will leave him.


f he continues it after you say this,leave him.


Otherwise your self esteem will plummet.
I'm sorry for this guy. He has a good thing but..he is taking advantage of you and your kind heart. First try confronting him about it, and then if it doesn't consider your options. It sound like you have a good heart with alot of hurt.
,DUMP HIM....





He only wants someone to tell his troubles too,and talk about other girls.





YES, that is very disrespectful....I would not go for that.......





He does not sound like he goes for you at all..I would say again...DUMP..DUMP..SOON....





Like the saying goes....There are lots of fishes in the sea ! ! !





you don`t need him........
Tell your boyfriend he is being disrespectul and if he cared about you he would stop what he's doing. Also, tell him how you feel about him being non affectionate and how it is making you feel.
So why are you dating a disrespectful, sexist jerk? Have a little self respect and find someone better.
drop him.
sounds like a player. he is rude, regardless. he needs to be replaced.
you should degfiantly talk to him abotu i mean its totally wrong he doesnt hold your hand. dont break up with him because you probally love him sit down and talk to him about tell him how you feel. or you could not want to hold his hand when ever he wants and start making comments baout other men infront of hima nd see what he does
He's a jerk. If a guy glances at a girl walking by, that's human, if he makes comments that is just plain rude. It's extremely disrespectful and crude. Your description of his additional behaviours makes me think he's an idiot and that you could do better. Find someone who treats you properly, don't wast your time.





I understand it'll be hard - but you should know that the longer you stay with him the more time you waste and you're not free to meet the right guy. No man should make sexual comments about another woman in front of his girlfriend and if he's not holding your hand or acting affectionate - there is something else going on.





Good luck.
well sounds like he's losing interest in you, so you might have to spice it up girl
You are special, so you should find someone who can treat you that way... You need to talk to him about this though
Dump his ***! If he's more interested in other women, you need a new one. If he's not respectful now.....what makes you think he will ever change? It will just get worse. YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DUMP HiM..thats so disrespectful. he obviously doesnt have any respect foryouu. and thats not fair. u deserve better. or if u really feel like u love him. tell him how u feel..
I think all women deserve better than that..Talking abuot women in front your face is highly disrespectful. If you spoke to him and he didnt stop thats a sure sign that he doesn't fully respect you as a women and that maybe you deserve better.If you haven't spoken to him about it, then maybe you should..and if your boyfreind doesn't like being affectionate, and you want to, then you sould reconsider things..Good luck and i hope things work out fo the best
Let him know how you feel, i joke around and make sexual comments about other girls around my girlfriend but it's all out of fun and she understands and jokes right back with me. I guess you just have to be secure with yourself and your relationship.
do you like it? then he shoulnt do it morality or right and wrong dont matter, what matters is if you feel disrespected he should act like a damn man and stop, to answer your question though, yes its not only wrong its ****** rude
dump him
I think this depends on the couple. My husband will make comments from time to time (mostly about the size of another woman's chest), and this doesn't bother me. He also tells me which celebs he finds hot and again not an issue). But if you are uncomfortable with it, then it is wrong and he shouldn't do it. Have you told him it bothers you?





As for the holding hands and whatnot...some people are just not touchy feelie...some don't like PDA. I am one of these people, but I still love my hubby regardless. :)





All the best!
VERY disrespectful. Say see ya and find a healthier relationship that you feel confident about. If you have to question these kinds of thing this should be your answer.
ask him that does he really want this re lationship
that is hurtful and disrespectful. this is not a good guy to be with and it will only get worse... if he thinks and speaks that way eventually it will turn in to actions...
girls have control over guys.


get him into u more and give him a lot of hugs n kisses.


give him n give him and then u will make him want u more.


then automatically, all his attention will come into u.


look sad when he leaves u with his friends n hell feel sorry for u.


n ya it is wrong for him to do that, but once u get him into u more, all this will be gone. maybe he will become protective over u. n hell be mad if u talk anything about another guy
yes. dump him and find someone who will treat you better.
break up with him. he doesn't respect u. seems to me, he doesn't want people to know u both are going out by not holding hands. he probably feels like he's too good for u %26amp; thinks he can do better.
He's your man, we can't tell you how to handle that.....either he doesn't care about your feelings or you are insecure %26amp; trippin' ....
tell him to stop a bit and just know that he will always be going home with you not another girl
YES! THAT IS COMPLETELY WRONG! ditch his sorry butt and get someone that's worth you!

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