i'm always talking until i run out of things to say and all he say is okay or sounds good but he never really puts in his opinion or never really speaks up so what should i do?How to make conversation with your boyfriend? what do you say?(especially when you do all the talking normally
You have to talk about something he likes. For example, if he's into airplanes ask an open ended question and wait for his response. When he responds give him eye contact and smile. Men love to talk about things their knowledgeable of. Don't always facilitate the conversation. Remain silent and eventually he'll contribute.
This is coming from a married woman who had to learn the hard way.How to make conversation with your boyfriend? what do you say?(especially when you do all the talking normally
If you are together all ready you should have an open relationship that already promotes talking to be easy. Learning how to talk to a guy is what you do while you are dating, not in the relatinpship. Maybe you two are moving way too fast. If he isnt the talkitive type, enjoy the silence, just ask him questions. If you think somthing is wrong and that's why he isnt talking to you then maybe you need to pull him to the side and ask him what's going on and why he isnt opening up to you.
be real with the guy, let him know that you wanna know how he thinks, u wanna learn how his mind ticks, what makes him tick, let him know that you want to know his strengths and weaknesses... keep knocking, and that door will be opened;-) even though it seems tedious, he'll soften up!:-)
ask lots of open ended questions.
Ask questions about things that are important to him... get him to talk about himself, his likes/dislikes, hobbies, etc. Find something you know he likes and find ways to encourage him to talk about them...then LISTEN!
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